Category Archives: Relationship Advice Column

“I have no problem attracting men that I want BUT after the first few dates they tend to pull away. I’m currently dating a guy and he replys everytime I text him BUT he doesn’t initiate communication any more and doesn’t ask me out. What can I do to make him want to be with [...]

My boyfriend asks me for money. What does this indicate? He has asked more than once. What should I do? This can be a sticky situation depending on how long you have been together. If this is a new relationship, under no circumstances should you be loaning or giving him money. If you have been [...]

I feel like I’ve been chasing a guy, at first he seemed flattered but now he’s pulling away. How do I get a guy to be interested in me again? This is a great question! I talk about chasing and pursuing a lot in my 10 Lesson Mini Course. This is because I feel that [...]

I like a man I met 5 months ago. I want him to know I like him and I also want to know if he likes me too. We are not in constant communication since he no longer works at my office. What should I do? Yes, it can be a horrible feeling if you [...]

I’ve been talking with a guy for 4 months and we have yet to go out. I’m reading his actions and feel he’s lost interest or thinking about someone else. He says that’s not true but so far he’s not proving me wrong. Should I issue an ultimatum? Would it even make a difference? Why [...]

I have had a crush on a man for many years now. We actually dated briefly some years ago, but things didn’t work out. After our relationship, he got married, but we still remained friends. Things started to go downhill with his marriage and he told me that when he got his divorce that he wanted me in [...]

I am a very involved woman with a full life. I look around my local supermarkets, stores, my karate club and even the organization that I volunteer at, and the vast majority of men that I see are either much older than me (usually married) or teenagers. My work is also not a good place to look, as I [...]

I have a problem. I have some feelings for my ex boyfriend but I realize that I don’t want to get back with my ex boyfriend because he is not the type of man I want. I want to be able to move on but I can’t find the right guy. I am tired of being single! What [...]

Have you ever considered finding love online? Following is an interview I recently did with Jaimy Blazynski, The Date Doctor. She is an advocate for online dating and actually met her husband on a popular dating site. She explains how to do online dating the right way and why it may be advantageous to you. [...]

I like a man and he has been giving me signs that he likes me for the past couple of months. But he hasn’t asked me out yet. He is leaving soon for a few months and I think the reason he hasn’t asked me out is that he doesn’t want me to wait for [...]

I created this quick video to answer one of the most popular relationship questions I receive through my blog. It has to do with meeting someone that you really like and all of a sudden they become really “busy”. Listen to my thoughts on this situation and comment below! Look forward to hearing your thoughts. [...]

Recently I have been hanging out with a guy and we have gotten really close.  I started to develop some feelings towards him. However, I am dating someone else. I know I should have kept my distance but this new guy is so fun to be around and we have so much in common. He even told me [...]

I have been dating a man for a few years now. I really like him but he still dates other women. His family really likes me. When we spend time together he’s very sweet and loving. Yet, when we are not together, it’s like he can care less. I’m very confused on what I should [...]

I have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for two years. We currently live together. I don’t know where I stand with him. Only his close friends and his staff know about me. Recently, he has been having a lot of visits from a neighbor of ours. When I return home she leaves 5 [...]

So there’s this guy I have liked for the past 6 months now. His family and mine are really good friends and I have heard from his relatives that he has feelings for me. Right now he has a girlfriend, but she’s in college in San Diego and we’re in Seattle so I don’t believe [...]

  I’m really down and out about men. It seems I only meet the ones that want to be physical….like guys who already have a girlfriend and want me on the side. I’m sick and tired of it and I know you’re not suppose to give up but I’m to that point. It really upsets [...]

Dear Robyn, I have been in love with this guy at work for over 2 years. It started more like a crush but then turned into more. I tried to get his attention more by getting my male friend to hook us up. The guy never made a move. After some time a female friend [...]

Dear Robyn, I am in love with one of my close friends and I want to know how to make him fall in love with me. Aisha Dear Aisha, Being “in love” with a friend is something that should be handled very carefully. You don’t want to outright say that you like him and then [...]

Dear Robyn, So there’s this guy named Cory who I have liked for 6 months now. We know each other through our families. And I know for a fact he had/has feelings for me. Right now he has a girl friend, but she’s in college in San Francisco and we’re on the East Coast so [...]

Dear Robyn, There is this guy I had a crush on for the past 7 years. Initially he asked me out but I declined since I was in a relationship at that time with someone else. But after a few days I broke up with my boyfriend and I contacted this crush of mine. He [...]

If he doesn’t believe in love, what should you do? There is one thing…

Dear Robyn Letter: If you have ever been in love with a good friend you will appreciate the helpful advice on how to move things forward with him.

Dear Robyn Letter: Are you dating a man who doesn’t want a commitment. Here are helpful tips on how to get him to commit.

Dear Robyn Letter: Have you ever dated a guy and dated him and dated him and dated him with no commitment from him? I will show you how to get over the hump.

Are you dating someone and want to know “Is He Right For Me?” There are 6 ways you can determine if Mr. Right is right for you. Find out what they are here.