Flirting With Men
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Batting lashes. Playful poking. Winking lids. Blushing cheeks. Loud Laughter.
Flirting is the first sniff of a relationship. It’s a light-hearted activity but is also the first rung in the ladder to love. If you want to find The One, you must first master the art of flirting with men.
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There are wrong and right ways to flirt your way into the affection of that man you’ve been eyeing.
Here are some simple guidelines for flirting with men:
Exude confidence.
Confident people are more likely to be noticed. We admire confident people. Happiness is attractive, and people don’t go out of their way to meet the downers. Walking with purpose, conveying your self-assurance and making eye contact makes you a privilege to talk to: that girl people want to meet.
Stroke his ego.
Boosting his confidence is a sure way to trigger a conversation, but don’t ramble off generic flattery such as, “I like your shirt” or “you have nice eyes.” Be specific with your compliments to come across more genuine and memorable. Tell him what distinguishable trait you like, for example, “That shade of green in your shirt complements your eyes.” Just avoid words a guy wouldn’t desire to be called – cute, adorable and precious to list a few. You may have good intentions, but he won’t think it’s so cute to be called “cute.”
Play favorites.
Be polite and talk to his friends, but give him special attention to let him know he’s the one you’re interested in. Stand closer to him, lean in when he speaks and sustain eye contact with him just a little bit longer than his friends when you are talking. Revitalizing his self-esteem with a smidge of favoritism makes you approachable… and will have him wanting to approach.
Be interested.
To be interesting, you have to be interested. People can make the mistake of confusing confidence, an attractive trait, with arrogance, a bad vibe. Don’t focus solely on you; inquire about him. Don’t relate everything he says to you. Show a genuine interest in what he says and ask him further questions. Showing you’re interested in what he has to say shows you are interested in him. Or at least (for now) the possibility of him.
Subtle contact.
Modest physical contact is simple flirting tactic. When we touch someone, we show our affection toward them. A touch on the arm, a playful (delicate!) push if he says something funny. Any sensible excuse to make even a finger of contact dances around the prospect of intimacy. Even if it’s just the intimacy shared between friends.
MEGA TIP: With subtle contact you really have to play on his energy. If he seems to like the contact, then by all means keep on making subtle contact while you both are talking, especially if he is reciprocating. If you sense that he is becoming uncomfortable with the contact or trying to make space between the two of you, respect his space.
Relax.
These are tips to make your flirting with men productive. But don’t get too caught up in “right” and “wrong” ways to flirt. Nerves show and you want to highlight your intelligent, poised, dignified, strong qualities. Over-thinking the situation can turn you overbearing, underbearing or too scared to even talk.
Relax, be yourself, and He will love you for it.
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