Make Him Fall In Love - Strategy Four
Be unpredictable. Does he always know what you are up to? You may be too predictable. A little mystery about you will help his attraction grow. If he knows he can always call you at a certain time and get a hold of you or if you have found he knows your schedule front and back, this can actually work against you when making him fall in love.
Plan some things that are unpredictable and out of the ordinary for YOU to do. You don't have to change or be someone you are not, but this may mean accepting invitations from friends for things you wouldn't normally do.
It makes your man say, hmmm? what else don't I know about her, she's pretty exciting.
It will make him step up his game too. If you've just accepted an invitation to go out with friends to the gun range, now he has to come up with something beyond a movie that is going to show you a good time.
Men thrive on mystery and unpredictability. It's a real challenge to try to figure you out. You will find that by being exciting, not only are you putting yourself first, by trying new things, but he will become more interested in you because he doesn't know what's coming up next.
Try it, it works well.
Make Him Mine - Strategy Five
Have standards. When you are dating him, some things should be off limits. Which things? That's up to you. When you use Strategy #1, you will definitely find some things that you rather not deal with and that are deal breakers for you.
Every man you date isn't going to be "the one". You will actually date more men that are not "the one" then men who are right for you.
If you keep this in mind, you won't get frustrated with the dating process, it's just part of weeding out those men who aren't ideal so you can find the one who is right for you.
Some women make the mistake of treating EVERY man like they are "the one". They focus all their energies on them when they are dating and act as if they are in a committed relationship with him, when they aren't yet.
The clearest way to have standards is to be selective of the men you date. You should know what you want in a relationship before you start dating, and if the man you date doesn't meet those standards, you should not be dating him.
This works in tandem with strategy #6.
Making A Man Fall In Love - Strategy 6
Create a list. This will greatly help you with setting standards. When dating, it's important to know what you want and what is unacceptable BEFORE you start dating anyone. If you don't know what you want, it will be hard for you to show "exclusivity" as was discussed in Strategy #2.
When you have a list of what you want, not every man will make the cut. The man you are dating right now, may not be right for you. You have to carefully think about what you want in a relationship and work from there.
When creating this list, it shouldn't be so detailed that NO man could ever live up to it, but it should have some things that are non-negotiable.
Here are a few non-negotiables that should be on every woman's list.
1. Respects you. If he is cursing around you and calling you out of your name, he's a no go. Period.
2. Respects your family. If he talks bad about your mom, dad, or siblings, he's not right for you. One day, he will surely turn that talk towards you.
3. Respects other women. It's not cool for him to talk about how horrible other women are and how you are the only one that gets it right. You should be wary of anyone that downs another person excessively because that talk can quickly turn and be about you.
These are just a few, but every woman's list will be different. Be sure that you are listing the things that YOU want and not what your friends or others think you should have.
Make Him Fall For You - Secret Strategy Seven
Date more than one man. I usually get a lot of push back when I talk about this most effective strategy, but once women understand the reasons for this, they thank me profusely for the insight.
Until your man takes your relationship to the next level and offers commitment, it is wise of you to date other men while dating him.
Dating DOES NOT mean having sex with other men. Dating is getting to know other men to see if they have what it takes to be the right man.
When you date a couple of men at once, it's impossible to get your heart wrapped around just one man.
And the best effect of this strategy will be that both men will be more into you, because he will sense that you are seeing another and he will have to work harder to impress you.
Men love competition. He has to work, often times offering a commitment, to win you over.