Are you into a guy whose ego is so big it can not fit into one relationship? You are aware that he is a player but you still want to be with him. You are thinking – He is full of himself, but who else would he be full of. That’s how we women are – when we like someone, we like them fully, with all of their flaws.
No one can say a player doesn’t like women. In fact, he likes them so much he feels that one woman is simply not enough for him. Still, there is a big chance he believes he is supposed to be a womanizer since all of is macho friends are. Maybe he just didn’t find the right girl (you) to settle down with. So, how to get a player to commit?
It’s simple – when with player, you play a game. If you play it right, you are set for a touchdown. You will win his heart. Keep reading and you will discover efficient tactics on how to get a player to fall for you.
Flirt, but play hard to get.
Avoid getting too involved in the process of his seduction. Let him question whether you are truly interested. For example: you don’t have to answer his booty call or put an emoji at the end of every text. You are not just another star in his hall of fame. He will realize you are a whole galaxy of stars.
Wear your clothes; don’t let the clothes wear you.
Every dress is your self-portrait. Wear something that will make him believe the word she starts with shhh for a reason (because God created a woman with a sensual whisper). Be sexy, but not slutty, as showing off too much leads to getting too little.
You don’t have to answer all of his questions right away. Not knowing what you think and how you feel is a great aphrodisiac. Make him think – Maybe she is born with it and maybe it’s her enigma. In that manner, you will not only be safe from being used, but you will also keep a player stimulated to get to know you more.
To be constantly available is not how to make a player like you. You are not a one trick pony waiting to be tamed. You have your own life; your job, your hobbies, your friends. Impress a player with diversity of your interests and personality traits.
Control your emotions and desires.
All players are like astronauts – they need their space (this includes emotional space). Do not make jealous scenes as those are going to push him away. It is also important to keep in mind that knowing to hold off on sex is knowing how to make a player want you. Sleeping with player on a first date would show him you are just another easy target.
The bed is the only place where you should not control your emotions. Take all those affectations you have been hiding in public and turn them into fireworks in the bedroom. Be uninhibited, treat his body like a temple, and you will become the only goddess in his love pantheon.
Respect his freedom and privacy.
Y o u n e e d t o l e t a p l a y e r b r e a t h e l i k e l e t t e r s i n t h i s s e n t e n c e. If he wants to go out with his friends, let him be. If he leaves his phone on the table while taking a shower, don’t check his Facebook messages. Possessive behavior is never how you get a player to commit.
Avoid excessive flattering, but validate his ego.
If he sees you as independent girl one who is capable of thinking on her own, the one who is not a cliché, he will believe when you tell him he is smart or that he has a nice body. It’s ok to cherish his self-esteem. On the other hand, don’t let his ego play the main role in the romantic movie you wish to live.
Be cool with his friends,
Socialize with his entourage, even with the guys you don’t like that much. Be natural and let your personality glow. You can’t be a pearl If you’re hiding in your shell. Once his friends see you as a girlfriend material, a love relationship with your player will be easier to mold.
Be there for him.
When a player has a problem, he doesn’t just need a safety net. He needs a trampoline where he can freely jump from happiness and fall into anger. Even the biggest Casanova has insecurities, so he will highly appreciate If you let him express his emotions. Meaning, he won’t feel the need to look for support and validation elsewhere. http://www.readunwritten.com/2014/06/02/taming-a-player-secrets-to-turning-a-bad-boy-into-boyfriend-material/
How to make a player like you even more? Let him believe he is a bad boy.
The truth is – you have fallen for a player because of his bad boy attitude. As becoming a boring monogamist is his biggest fear, you should not prevent him from having fun without you. Spoiler alert: If you end up in a relationship with a player, you will have to define the boundaries of ”having fun”.
Following these strategies is like casting a spell that will make a player fall in love with you. Afterall, it is ok to play a lovegame If both sides are winning. Once he perceives you as mysterious, authentic, tolerant and independent, his heart will grow bigger than his ego. The ego of a player might still be huge, but remember: size doesn’t’ matter unless we are talking about hearts.