It seems that it is hard for men to stay faithful to their
wives, how can I overcome this in my relationship?
Being faithful is a big issue in relationships. First, you have to trust the person you are with. If you don’t trust that person, then you will just drive yourself crazy trying to prove that they are cheating. It’s a very stressful situation.
The best thing to do is to make sure you have a strong foundation for a healthy and happy relationship. Do you have common interests? Do you have things other than sexual attraction that keep you together? Focus on those things.
The past is a great predictor of the future, so while dating it’s important to see if the person cheated on their ex and what were the circumstances surrounding that cheating. This is not easy information to get, and is definitely not a first date question, but throughout dating, if you can get him to divulge this information, it will be helpful for you to understand how he is most likely to act in the future.
The best way to prevent cheating is to have a genuine friendship with your mate. True friends find it very difficult to hurt another friend in that way.
Also during initial dating, making sure he has the opportunity to pursue you, helps him be faithful to you since he knows that you weren’t an easy catch and that it would be nearly impossible for you to take him back if cheating occurred.