Recently I have been hanging out with a guy and we have gotten really close. I started to develop some feelings towards him.
However, I am dating someone else. I know I should have kept my distance but this new guy is so fun to be around and we have so much in common. He even told me that he likes me!
The guy I am dating is sweet, but the conversations I have with him is nothing like what I have with the other guy.
What should I do?
Guest Post by Eris Huemer
Eris Huemer, MA MFT, is the author of “Break-Up Emergency. A Guide to Transform Your Break UP into a Break THROUGH” and has been a reoccurring “Love Doctor,” on Ryan Seacrest’s national radio show. Eris is a licensed marriage and family therapist and relationship coach who specializes in doing Love Makeovers with singles and couples.
You can’t have your cake and eat it to while being fair to yourself and the other people that you are involved with.
The important thing here is being honest with the other man who you are dating. That is the only fair thing to do.
That being said, its a good thing that you have met someone that you have good conversations with and have feelings towards. Go for it! Find out more about him.
Dating is all about gathering information. During the dating stage you get to know someone: their likes and dislikes, good and bad, happy and sad. As time goes on you get to know them better and decide if they are a good match for you.
To Your Break THROUGH Success!