I know how you feel. First he’ll give you little signs that he’s into you and then all of a sudden it seems like he doesn’t even notice you. Is he serious? Men have been playing this same game for ages. It’s nothing new. Determining if he likes you is actually pretty easy…but more details on this later.
First, I want you to think about how things would change for you if you not only knew if he liked you BUT also how to get him to ask you out? Where would you go on your first date?
Read EVERY word of this article. Because what I am going to reveal will mean a huge shift in the way you date…and can easily mean an extra 2-5 dates per year for you.
Note: If you have previously been in a long term relationship (more than 6 months) I am also recommending that you take a look at this site, What’s He Really Thinking, it gives a lot of insight into men and will help with some of the confusion with why men act in a certain way.
You’re not alone. Every woman who has ever liked a guy wants to know whether he likes her back. Because honestly, what fun is it for it to be one sided?
Here’s the problem, a lot of times it will be hard for you to determine whether a guy is being friendly or whether he truly wants to date you. A man might do something really nice for you or say something to you that sounds like it came right out of a romance novel….only for you to discover that he’s asked another woman out or that he is more interested in someone else!
Here’s the secret most moms don’t tell their daughters that usually ruin their chances with men beyond repair…It’s not because your mom wants to be malicious or never wants you to have success with men, it’s just because she doesn’t know.
Here’s what it is…If he hasn’t asked you out, it doesn’t mean anything! Because it’s all fairytales beyond that. It’s just you daydreaming about the way things could be…
But don’t give up…because it’s actually pretty easy to get him to make that move if you know the right things to do or say.
Here’s the thing…When he is first attracted to you, his attraction is strong and then starts to die down slowly. That’s the reason for all the mixed signals! It is imperative that you say and do the right things when his attraction is hot.
Don’t worry if you’ve already messed up here and you’ve had your crush for a while, there are still some things you can do to get him back to the hot attraction stage.
The problem with most dating information on the internet that I’ve found (And I’ve been through a lot of it) – is that most dating guides will give you the information but won’t necessarily walk you step by step how to use it in REAL life.
For example “Have self confidence in yourself and you will attract a lot of men” – Okkkk…, but how the heck do I do that? What do I do, how can I build self confidence, what do I actually say to him, word for word to get him to ask me out?
One of the few dating guides I have seen that’s actually pretty affordable is From Flirting to Forever. — It actually guides you step by step, teaching you exactly what to do and say when his attraction is hot, that will get him to ask you out EVERY single time – assuming he has a bit of interest.


