Getting Him To Make The 1st Move, So You Can Relax
Welcome! Hi, I’m Robyn Lee. Thanks for answering my question about your guy.
The best part about relationships is the very beginning. So if you have your eye on this guy and you are trying to figure out if he likes you, this is one of the best parts, so enjoy it.
Don’t stress over whether he wants a long term relationship or not. Just enjoy the process.
One of the pieces of advice that I give to the ladies in my free 10 part attraction mini course is to not put all your focus on one man. And although you might be getting angry at me right now because you feel you are sure that this is the guy for you, let me explain.
When you put all your focus on ONE guy. You give off the desperate vibe, and you can’t hide it. I can always tell when a BAD salesperson has to meet a quota. I can just feel it. It makes me feel like I want to get away from the situation as soon as possible. I just feel bad for them and wish they would just leave me alone because they make me feel really uncomfortable.
But contrast that with a GOOD salesperson who has to meet a quota, but you never know. I start to ask them questions about what they have to offer and at the end there’s a good chance I end up purchasing their product and a whole lot of other stuff I don’t need.
You have to be that GOOD salesperson, and in order to do that, you have to have more than ONE prospect. Being interested in more than one guy doesn’t make you a bad person or indecisive it just makes you a woman who understands that “he may be the one or maybe not”, I am open to finding out.
And that’s the type of woman who most often ends up getting the guy she wants.
A man will do a lot of different things if he is interested in you, but one of the biggest mistakes women make during this time is taking the one thing he does, maybe it’s a little flirting or positive body language and going with it.
Once he has shown you a little interest, it is easy to get in the role of “Now I have to do something for him so he knows I like him”. Fight the urge and don’t do it, this is the most common mistake that makes men who would otherwise be interested in a relationship turned off.
It is so vital that you do the right things when his attraction is hot. The key to moving him from a love interest to him making the first move and asking you out is how you flirt with him.
Your flirting with him should make him feel more like a man. Women who are effective in doing this ALWAYS get the man they want. Because it works so effectively.
You don’t want to be the woman who has to ask him out on a date, you want him to do the pursuing.
You might get the flirting part right, but the way you do it determines how fast he will ask you out and the foundation of your relationship. Do the wrong things and you could end up with the WRONG GUY who would have otherwise been a great guy if you did the right things to grow his attraction properly.
If you are interested in flirting to get his interest, I highly recommend the From Flirting To Forever Website, it’s a step by step flirting guide that instructs you on exactly what to do and say to get him interested in you. It also guides you though what to say on the phone with him and what questions to ask on the first date.
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