From Friend To Relationship
When you like a friend it can be difficult. (I’m actually assuming here that you like him too, because if you’re anything like me, you really don’t care if a guy you don’t like is into you) Right??
The problem is that you don’t want to make things weird by asking him straight out if he likes you but you want to know because if he does, the sooner you can be together.
It would be a whole lot easier if he just told you what was on his mind. But rarely if ever will he just come out and tell you that he likes you. Because he might be afraid that you will reject him or he may feel he doesn’t want to ruin the friendship.
When you are trying to figure out if a friend likes you, you have to be really careful because one wrong move can make your friendship really awkward or sometimes non-existent.
When you are into him, you tend to give more. This is a huge mistake. Because if he is actually into you, he is becoming turned off the more and more you give and is seeing you more as a friend. So if you are baking him chocolate chip cookies or asking him out to hang out, stop. The more things you do for him even if you see it as being nice, the more he sees you as a friend.
This is simply because men like women that THEY can give to. That’s the masculine part of them. That’s why some men are with women you wouldn’t fathom that they would be interested in… What does she have on me? But the answer could simply be that he is able to do things for her and she isn’t taking over his role as a man.
So the answer to him actually becoming more interested in you is doing less, but you have to know how to do it correctly. Just giving less might make it seem like you are punishing him for doing something wrong or that you are playing some sort of game.
If you are interested in slowly growing his interest in you, the right way, I highly recommend that you take a look at this flirting guide, Robyn’s Favorite Flirting Guide, I own a copy and I love it. I’ve used a few tips in the guide namely the way to smile at men that gets them to take action and approach you or ask you out.
Thanks for visiting my website,
Robyn Lee
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