It’s midnight, and my husband and I are in the middle of a tense discussion. It’s been months since I’ve felt this kind of anger toward him, but suddenly, it’s back. I grab my digital notepad because …
Why Am I So Mean to My Husband? What Finally Changed for Me
My therapist once asked me, “How are you able to be so mean to your husband?” Okay, he didn’t actually say mean. He used softer, more professional words, but that’s what he really meant. I had just …
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My Marriage Felt Like Roommates Until I Made These 3 Shifts
The roommate stage wasn’t just about everything my husband had stopped doing. It was also about what had happened between us that made withdrawing feel easier than connecting. Putting the kids to …
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What To Do (And What Not To Do) When Another Woman Is Crossing The Line With Your Man
Have you ever caught yourself thinking, “I think that woman has a crush on my husband” or “That woman is definitely interested in my husband?”? These aren’t comfortable thoughts. Sometimes it’s …
Why Your Husband Seems Fine Spending So Little Time With You
It’s hard to say it out loud. My husband doesn’t want to spend time with me. That’s the part that stings the most. Not the chores he doesn’t help with. Not the conversations that go …
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My Husband Never Wants to Do Anything but Watch TV—What Now?
It’s not the TV. It’s the way you feel invisible. You walk into the room, and he’s glued to the screen. You try talking, but he barely grunts in response. You plan things, suggest date nights, try …
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