Are You A Thermostat Or A Thermometer?

Are You A Thermostat Or A Thermometer?

What the heck do thermostats and thermometers have to do with relationships? Well you know that I often use analogies when I teach about relationships, but have I gone too far? Let me explain. A couple of weeks ago, I was talking to a friend of mine on Skype. As he received my phone call [...]

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The Answer To All Your Man Problems

The Answer To All Your Man Problems

Alright, maybe I went a little bit overboard on the title but what I’m about to share with you is extremely important in relationships and attraction. If you don’t know how to do this properly, it will be very difficult for you to keep the attraction going in a new relationship or even a more [...]

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In Relationship Wilderness?

In Relationship Wilderness?

This past weekend I found myself feeling sorry for myself. And I debated a bit on whether I would share this personal story with you but in the end I felt that it would be more helpful to you and your relationships than me keeping my “nothing fazes me” persona. I figured you needed to [...]

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If I Give Him Space…He’ll Leave

If I Give Him Space…He’ll Leave

“When I have dated in the past, I have been so excited that the guy was interested in me like I was interested in him that I realized I may have been smothering him. I felt if I gave him a foot of space, he would go somewhere else and not come back. Which seems [...]

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Two Behaviors That Cause Men To Pull Away

Two Behaviors That Cause Men To Pull Away

Two things that will cause good men to pull away after initially being interested: Guest Post by James Taylor Neediness You will appear needy to a man if you seem overly nervous or tense when you are in his presence, or alternatively if he feels that you are trying hard not to screw things up [...]

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How Do I Keep Him Interested In Me?

How Do I Keep Him Interested In Me?

“I have no problem attracting men that I want BUT after the first few dates they tend to pull away. I’m currently dating a guy and he replys everytime I text him BUT he doesn’t initiate communication any more and doesn’t ask me out. What can I do to make him want to be with [...]

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Why Men Pull Away

Why Men Pull Away

Why do Men Pull Away? I mean honestly, if you can uncover the answer to this question, you can really make some awesome changes in your dating life and in relationships. [VIDEO] Why Do Men Pull Away? If you don’t understand why men pull away and how to reel him back in, you can miss [...]

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Small Tip That’s Highly Effective In Relationships

Small Tip That’s Highly Effective In Relationships

I just wanted to share with you this quick tip with you that is really effective in resetting your relationship. I’m going to explain later how exactly it works and your mindset while using it. This is highly effective on men, but I wouldn’t suggest using it in your relationships with women, it usually has [...]

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Lesson 1: Why THIS Is So Important In Attraction

Lesson 1: Why THIS Is So Important In Attraction

Welcome to my 10 Lesson Mini Course on Attraction! Who Am I? I’m Robyn Lee and I’ve hosted relationshipblackbook.com for almost 3 years. I give advice to women on how to get the man they want and how to navigate effectively through attraction. Thousands of women have been helped through my relationship advice. Currently, I [...]

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Lesson 2: The Number One Thing A Man Wants

Lesson 2: The Number One Thing A Man Wants

Welcome Back! In our last lesson we discussed the importance of education when wanting to create a happy and healthy relationship. In this lesson I am going to share with you a very powerful tip that will put you way ahead of the game. If you watched Kara Oh’s video from last lesson, you already [...]

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Lesson 3: 3 Ways To Tell If He’s Interested

Lesson 3: 3 Ways To Tell If He’s Interested

Welcome to lesson 3 of Relationship Blackbook’s Mini Course! It’s time to discuss how you can tell for sure if a man is interested in you. This is going to be very important because you don’t want to waste your time and your heart on men who have no interest in getting in a relationship [...]

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Lesson 4: Why did Grandma lie to me?

Lesson 4: Why did Grandma lie to me?

Our last lesson was devoted to discussing what a man will always do if he is interested in you. This lesson we’re going to discuss an important concept every woman needs to understand to KEEP a man’s interest. I hope you learned a lot from the previous lesson. You should feel really good about yourself [...]

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Lesson 5: Two MAJOR Turn Offs!

Lesson 5: Two MAJOR Turn Offs!

I’m just going to say it, there are TWO man repellents that you want to absolutely avoid. One is neediness and the other one I’ll mention towards the end of this email. Sometimes they go hand in hand but at other times, you will be able to read the descriptions and realize that one is [...]

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Lesson 6: 5 Secret Tips To Flirting Effectively

Lesson 6: 5 Secret Tips To Flirting Effectively

Flirting for women…easy. The mistake that many women make is OVERDOING flirting. Effective flirting involves using subtle moves that lures in your bait (love interest) AND gets him interested in learning what you are all about. By now, you probably know I’m a big fan of Kara Oh’s From Flirting to Forever. Not because you [...]

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Lesson 7: Why Nice Men Don’t Call Back

Lesson 7: Why Nice Men Don’t Call Back

In our last lesson we discussed a couple of effective flirting techniques. Now that you’ve been using the flirting techniques (or your own that have been effective for you), we come to our “why men don’t call back lesson” — which is probably one of the TOP pet peeves for women. In this lesson I [...]

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Lesson 8: Are you meeting enough good men?

Lesson 8: Are you meeting enough good men?

This lesson is actually by my friend Kara Oh, she’s the author of From Flirting To Forever & Men Made Easy I wanted to provide you with some tips that you can use right away to increase the number of good men you meet on a daily basis: You’ve heard of “self talk”, right? Well, [...]

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Lesson 9: Why MOST Women End Up in “BTA” Relationships…

Lesson 9: Why MOST Women End Up in “BTA” Relationships…

I started to send you a quick email as to why many women fail in relationships and end up in “BTA” situations. What is a “BTA” relationship? It means “better than alone”. I wish I could coin this term but it actually came from a guy named T.W. Jackson, more on him later. But what [...]

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BTA Relationships Continued

BTA Relationships Continued

I sent you an email yesterday talking about “BTA” relationships and how you can take steps to getting out of a “BTA” relationship or never ending up in one in the first place. Today, I’m going to give you an easy fix to changing your default setting. What is a default setting? It’s where your [...]

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Lesson 10: What TRUMPS Beauty And Intelligence?

Lesson 10: What TRUMPS Beauty And Intelligence?

I wanted to send you a quick message regarding something that you absolutely need when your goal is to be in a happy and healthy relationship. Yesterday, I was talking to a good friend of mine online and we were catching up on the happenings of life. All of a sudden she started to cry [...]

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Bonus Lesson 11: I FOUND the Secret Stash of Men

Bonus Lesson 11: I FOUND the Secret Stash of Men

I Found the Secret Stash of Men! We have reached the last lesson of our series. This lesson is probably the most important because meeting and keeping a good man starts with having the right mindset. I just want to sincerely thank you for signing up for this course. I truly hope that you received [...]

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Why MOST Women End Up In “BTA” Type Relationships

I started to write a quick post as to why many women fail in relationships and end up in “BTA” situations. What is a “BTA” relationship? It means “better than alone”. I wish I could coin this term but it actually came from a guy named T.W. Jackson, more on him later. But what I [...]

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Settling For Less In A Relationship

Settling For Less In A Relationship

Are you settling for less in your relationship? Are you valuing yourself and getting what you truly want out of your relationship or even in friendships? Read to learn more on what you can do.

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How To Repair Your Relationship

How To Repair Your Relationship

Do you love him? Is the relationship not working out the way you want? If you are suffering through relationship problems, it can be particularly tough, especially during the holidays. There is a lot of pretending for families or facing the truth when your partner decides not to show up for events that he has [...]

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My Boyfriend Is Asking Me For Money…Again

My Boyfriend Is Asking Me For Money…Again

My boyfriend asks me for money. What does this indicate? He has asked more than once. What should I do? This can be a sticky situation depending on how long you have been together. If this is a new relationship, under no circumstances should you be loaning or giving him money. If you have been [...]

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He Was Flattered At First…Now He’s Pulling Away

He Was Flattered At First…Now He’s Pulling Away

I feel like I’ve been chasing a guy, at first he seemed flattered but now he’s pulling away. How do I get a guy to be interested in me again? This is a great question! I talk about chasing and pursuing a lot in my 10 Lesson Mini Course. This is because I feel that [...]

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I Like Him But…He Doesn’t Work With Me Anymore!

I Like Him But…He Doesn’t Work With Me Anymore!

I like a man I met 5 months ago. I want him to know I like him and I also want to know if he likes me too. We are not in constant communication since he no longer works at my office. What should I do? Yes, it can be a horrible feeling if you [...]

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He Hasn’t Asked Me Out

He Hasn’t Asked Me Out

I’ve been talking with a guy for 4 months and we have yet to go out. I’m reading his actions and feel he’s lost interest or thinking about someone else. He says that’s not true but so far he’s not proving me wrong. Should I issue an ultimatum? Would it even make a difference? Why [...]

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4 Page Letters And Other Attraction Myths

4 Page Letters And Other Attraction Myths

This past weekend I was hanging out with a male friend of mine and there was a song that started to play on the radio. It was one of the late songstress Aaliyah’s popular tunes, 4 Page Letter. The lyrics never really stood out to me, especially when I was younger and used to sing along [...]

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He’s With Her But He Say’s He Wants A Relationship With Me

He’s With Her But He Say’s He Wants A Relationship With Me

I have had a crush on a man for many years now. We actually dated briefly some years ago, but things didn’t work out. After our relationship, he got married, but we still remained friends. Things started to go downhill with his marriage and he told me that when he got his divorce that he wanted me in [...]

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