How To Attract Men
How To Be Irresistble To Men Ebook
Hi! My name is Brandi Bailey, welcome to my relationship website. I created this website for all types of women who are looking for exclusive relationships with great men or who are already in relationships but need a little sound relationship advice.
So many single women face the question of how to attract men. Being single can be lonely, and sometimes it is difficult to know if we are doing the right things to attract our potential “Mr Right”.
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With this in mind, the following “rules” are not an exhaustive list, but by implementing some or all of them, you increase your chances of learning how to attract men:
STEP 1: You first must decide on what type of man you want
This is by far the most important thing you should do. If you don’t know what you want, then how can you attract him? Write down all of the things you would like your man to have. List the must-haves (things you will not compromise on) as well as the nice-to-haves (it would be nice if he was like this, or had that, but it’s not 100% necessary) and be very specific!
MEGA TIP: If he doesn’t have one of your must haves, it is better to let him down nicely at the beginning then to continue a relationship with him. You could find yourself in a long term relationship with the man wanting to change the one thing that you wanted so much. It is not a good feeling at all. On the other hand don’t turn down every guy because he doesn’t have your nice to haves. You could miss out on a great guy because his favorite cookie is oatmeal and not chocolate chip. Some differences are expected in a relationship.
STEP 2: You need to get out!
Unless you have an insect problem in your house, it is very unlikely your future husband will come to your door, so you have to get out of the house! You know what type of man you want, so what do you think a man like this would do on weekends? Does he like sport, and if so, what sport? Go to a game! Does he like biking? If so, take it up! If you can’t go it alone, take a friend with you.
STEP 3: Have fun!
There is nothing more unattractive to a man than someone who is obviously desperate and down about being single. Not only that, but if you’re down or depressed, you are subconsciously giving out “keep away” signals. If you’re having fun and smiling, he will see you as a happy person and is less tentative about approaching you.
STEP 4: Be confident
Men like confidence, but be careful not to come across as too confident – this can be interpreted as arrogance and you don’t want that.
STEP 5: Smile at him
If you see a man that catches your eye, then flash him a little smile when he looks your way. If he responds with a return smile, you’re off to a good start!
STEP 6: Talk to him
If you’re near enough to hear each other, talk to him. You don’t have to say something profound. Even a comment about the sport you are watching or the song that is playing or anything relevant to where you are. Keep smiling at him!
DATER BEWARE:
5 types of men you do not want to attract, you do not want to learn how to attract men like this:
1. Drunk/drugged up men – no explanation needed here.
2. Men with women hanging all over them – unless you like looking as desperate as the other women, it’s not worth bothering with this guy.
3. A man who won’t even look at you (shy/lacking in confidence) – whilst these men might be ok once you get to know them, it is possible that they have plenty of “baggage” that makes them this way. Best to avoid them just in case.
4. Men with anger issues – men who constantly find themselves embroiled in an argument or fight are nothing but trouble!
5. Moochers – you do not want to end up with a guy who mooches off everyone around him. He’s obviously very immature and does not realize how unattractive it makes him look.
When trying to learn how to attract men you want (which of course will exclude the men in the list above!), put yourself in his shoes. Would you be attracted to someone like you if you were that guy?
If not, it’s not about going and completely changing your personality, but more about making a few tweaks here and there whilst remaining yourself. Your looks should have very little to do with it, although a nice new haircut and stylish clothes won’t go astray!
The bottom line is this: If he doesn’t like you for who you are, then is he really worth the effort?
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