I have a problem. I have some feelings for my ex boyfriend but I realize that I don’t want to get back with my ex boyfriend because he is not the type of man I want. I want to be able to move on but I can’t find the right guy. I am tired of being single! What can I do to get in a new relationship?
Guest Poster: Jaimy Blazynski
You should never stay with a man that you are not happy with just because you want a relationship. I know this may not be what you want to hear but you need to start by liking and accepting who you are as a single woman. Otherwise you are going to keep grabbing for a man to make you feel better about yourself. Once you like yourself for who you are you will be much more desirable to men. And you will be far more likely to find a healthy relationship.
Get a hobby that is not all about finding a man! Pick up a sport, take a class, visit a craft store, go to the gym, etc…
Once you are in a good place to date you will find it so much easier to find love. Internet dating is my favorite as there are so many great singles on there. But many disagree and say there are only jerks on these dating sites. I will share a secret with you…The women who say there are jerks on the sites are the types of women who only attract the jerks! Perhaps they believe that is what they deserve, or this is most familiar to them. Do not be one of these women and you will find true love. But it all starts with loving you!!
About our Guest Poster: Jaimy Blazynski is CT’s very own Date Doctor. She started her own company got5minutes.com in 2005 and has been helping people find love ever since. You can hear her every Friday afternoon at 6:10 PM on 96.5 WTIC with Damon Scott. She can also be seen on Better CT at 3:00 PM on Fridays. Jaimy recently published her book, Crush-Lessons Learned Through a Lifetime of Crushes. In addition she and her husband produce and host The Date Doctor Show every Sunday evening at 8:30 p.m. Jaimy has been giving dating advice to thousands over the years. Her mission is to help everyone find true love and have fun doing it. Her favorite piece of advice is…never settle! To learn more about Jaimy, get her book, catch her podcast or register for a singles event.
hi… my problems is exactly the same.. my ex boy friend he betrayed me… and am now in such condition that i can’t sleep properly..i try to laugh and be happy amongst the people who love me…but when am alone i feel really sad and feel lonely… please advised me the best..what i should do…there is a guy whom i know he really love me and always there for me whenever am sad or low.. but am nt being attracted towards him as my boy friend…please tell me what i should do..