20. His Body Language Will Mirror Yours.
Do you find when you fold your arms, he folds his too? This is a more involuntary movement on his part showing that he is engaged in the conversation.
Does he lean into you when you talk? This shows interest as well.
Don’t take this one as a full out profession of his love, but along with other signs this could show that he likes you.
21. He’s Respectful Of His Language Around You.
If you have shown yourself to be a respectable lady, even if he curses like a sailor in front of other people, he will be the perfect gentleman around you.
He won’t want to chance you being “turned off” by his nasty mouth.
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22. He Will Assume You Are Taken But Hope That You Are Not.
When talking does he try to sneak a comment in about your “boyfriend”?
Ex: But your boyfriend wouldn’t approve of that would he?
This is his way of figuring out if you are attached. He doesn’t want to full out ask you if you have a boyfriend or not for fear that he will be shut down, but he tries to do it in a roundabout way so he can get the information he needs.
23. He Asks You If You Have A Boyfriend.
This is the more bold approach. He comes out and asks you if you are seeing anyone. If he doesn’t come up with a reason why he is asking for the information directly afterwards, he could have some deep interest.
Asking if you have a boyfriend, is him letting you know that he is open to a relationship if things go well with you two.
If you are bold enough, follow up his question with a question of your own, “Why do you ask that?” Then you will know where his intentions are.
24. He Wants To Do What You Want To Do.
He just enjoys being around you and it doesn’t matter what you are doing as long as he is around you he is happy.
You want to go to the grocery store to get a snack? Sure!
You want to find that old movie you watched when you were a kid at the video store? No problem.
You really want to go for a long walk along your favorite hiking trail? Why not?
When he has genuine interest, his main goal is to be around you, no matter what you are doing.
Be careful not to fall in love with him at this point. Many women enjoy the time spent together so much that they want even more of him, this is a mistake. Attraction needs some unpredictability to grow.
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25. He Adheres To Your Needs.
Men that like you will listen to you and try to provide what you need. You mention you are thirsty and he is either asking you what you want to drink or has already pulled up to a convenience store to grab a bottle of water for you.
You mention you really want to go see a particular movie, he follows up with asking you what you are doing on Saturday.
A man that likes you will try to provide for you, in the little ways at first and then it will build up.
26. He Is Vulnerable With You And Shares His Feelings.
Men aren’t one to share their feelings or let their guard down easily. They are known as the “protectors” and how can they protect if they are seen as weak.
If he shares some sensitive information with you, it means that he trusts you and is willing to be open up around you. This shows a very deep interest, and should not be taken lightly.
27. He Tells You He Likes You.
This may seem like an obvious one, but sometimes after he has told you he liked you, he acts as if he never uttered those words.
But I assure you if he expressed initial interest and actually shared that he likes you, he was in fact into you.
28. He Always Looks And Smells Good Around You.
This one is a touch and go sign. If he always keeps up a good appearance, then this should be taken lightly, but if you find that he often looks and smells much better when you are around, he is trying to impress you.
This may even include him excessively cleaning his apartment or house, just to show you that he cares enough to make sure you are in a comfortable environment.
29. He Shares His Food With You.
There is no getting in between a man and his food, unless you are a woman that he has interest in.
Does he insist that you try his meal? Does he want to feed it to you? This is a definite sign that he is into you, especially if he attempts to feed it to you himself.
30. He Asks You To Move In With Him.
This is after you have been dating for some time. If a man asks you to share his domain with him, he is ready for commitment, assuming he just doesn’t need the extra roommate to pay the rent.
You want to be careful when analyzing this sign to see if he really wants to move things forward or if he is trying to be controlling or lower his living costs.
This step should be taken with caution. Be clear about what the goals are when you are living with each other. Does marriage follow? or does he just enjoy having your around?
Sometimes making the big plunge to move in together can be detrimental to your relationship moving forward, it’s best to have your own place where you both can retreat to.
Sometimes it can be the best thing that ever happened for your relationship, but you have to be clear on what you want and what the goals for the move are.
31. He Will Try To Impress You.
Has he tried his hand at the carnival game several times in order to win a prize for you? Trying to impress you with his skills of shooting a ball through a small basket or having the focus to squirt water on a small target is a sign that he is into you.
32. He Is Interested In Your Interests.
Do you find that he has an intense interest in things you like to do? Did you tell him you play volleyball and all of a sudden he invites you to a game at your Alma mater?
Does he DVR your favorite show to make sure you don’t miss it? He has some major interest in you.
33. He Will Be His Best Self.
Has he worked even harder since meeting you? Has his drive gotten stronger? Men will sometimes find themselves working harder towards their goals when they meet the right woman; they will want to be their best selves around them.
They want the woman to see that she’s going to be with a winner. If he has recently started doing things that show he has taken a renewed interest in his success, this could very well be a good sign that he is into you.
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Now that you know that he likes you, find out how to keep his interest, even if he has started to pull away.
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