The Top 3 Signs He Likes You

Find Out If He Likes You Right Now!

So, there is this guy that has been giving you a little attention, and you want to know, does he really like me? If you want to find out whether a guy really likes you, you can’t just listen to your instinct because it can steer you in the wrong direction, making things awkward between you and a man you are interested in. Rather, you want to take a look at some clues that signal that he is definitely into you.

But some guys can be really tricky, they give off mixed signals and you can not really tell what these signals mean. One thing is for sure, this can be really frustrating. Determining whether a guy is into you is easier than some women realize. Take a look at these 3 signals men give to women when they are really interested.

1)    If you want to find out does he really like me, pay attention to his greeting.

When you see this guy, does he make it a priority to greet you? Is he always in a hurry when you see him or does he stop for friendly conversation? If he always wants more than a hello, there is a pretty good chance that he enjoys talking to you at the very least.

If you want to find out whether he is into you, make sure you are smiling and enjoying the conversation. This will give him enough confidence to take the next step and ask you out. If you find that YOU are the one who always greets him, try not making the first move the next couple of times you see him, and see if he steps up to the plate.

2)    Is he always smiling at you?

Do you find that this guy is always smiling at you? This signal is going to need a little research, observe him and see if he is this friendly to everyone. If he is always smiling at you, give him a warm smile back, the type of smile that lets him know if he wants to approach you, you’re ok with it.

MEGA TIP: There are different types of smiles you can give to men. Be sure you are not giving off a quick smile that quickly returns to a stoic facial expression, let your smile linger for a bit, it’s more flirtatious. Be sure you are not giving off a desperate cheesy smile either. These types of smiles give off a desperation vibe.

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3)    Has he tried to make plans with you?

This signal is the most important because the way he asks you out will let you know immediately whether he wants to make sure you can make the event or whether he is partial to whether you come or not. If he is asking you out the day of the event, beware, it could be genuine but most times he might be partial to whether you come or not. If he tries to make plans with you a couple of days or better off a week or more in advance, he wants to be sure that you can actually make the event. You can almost bet on the fact that he has an interest in you.

DATER BEWARE: Even if he does ask you out ahead of time, pay attention to the type of event that you are invited to. If it is an event where he must have a date or it would be pretty awkward, like a wedding or a Christmas party, take that into consideration also. There could be a chance you were just the easiest person to ask out.

DATER BEWARE: No matter what, do not fall victim to the he is too shy, I need to help him ask me out mentality. One thing that you should know for sure is, if a guy is interested he will let you know. Eventually it will be very clear. Pursuing is in his instinct, so let him do the initiating.

If you like a particular guy and want to get him to approach you, if you’ve read anything on my blog you know that I am a big fan of FLIRTING. But flirting must be done correctly in order to get the maximum benefit.

The 5 Things He Will NEVER Tell You That He Thinks Are Attractive

What Do Men Find Attractive

We all know it takes more than good looks to attract the right man. If good looks alone could land us the man of our dreams, every actress and model would be in happy, long lasting relationships, and we know how far from the truth that is! Attracting a man that will love you takes more than good looks.

The truth is good looks are only the start of what it takes to attract the right man. It takes truly understanding a man to have the relationship you desire.

Now honestly, if your goal is to just attract plenty of men and you don’t care how they look, treat you , dress, or smell…this is not the website for you.

But if you want to learn how to attract the cream of the crop, you will want to read on because I’m going to share with you the good, the bad and the ugly, when it comes to what men actually find attractive in a woman. I will share with you the 5 basic qualities you need to possess to attract the type of man you want and 5 things you would never know that attracts men and are highly effective at getting a good man.

But just because you are physically attractive doesn’t mean a man will approach you or even want to date you. I will teach you 5 characteristics you will need to get you more attention from men.

Why Men Like Some Women And Not Others

It is important to understand each man is different.

Because men have their preferences, just like women. Some women like big muscles, others don’t. Some women like professional men, others would rather have a handy man. Men will be attracted to different types of women. Everyone on earth does not find Kim Kardashian and Beyonce attractive.

There are plenty of men that will find you attractive.

Beyond physical attractiveness, there are certain characteristics every woman needs to increase her chances of a guy finding her attractive:

5 Basics To Attracting A Few Good Men

These suggestions might seem simple, but if you are missing out on any of them, chances are you aren’t meeting as many men that are actually interested in you.

1. Is Your Talk Attractive?

Being confident doesn’t mean being aggressive. It just means being sure about what you are talking about and not questioning yourself repeatedly. The worse thing you can do when talking to a man is complain about how your life sucks or downing yourself, your weight, or your intelligence. Men want to be a part of your life not the wheels that keep it moving. Self-belief portrays confidence, regardless of the focus of the conversation.

If a man compliments you, accept his compliment. Many women will dismiss what a guy has said or even worse deny what he has said is true.

If he says to you, “You have a great smile”. Say thank you instead of questioning his intentions or denying that it is true.

The woman that believes she is deserving of love and affection is usually the one that gets it.

2. Why should he approach you anyway?

Eye contact is so very important. Well it still stands to say that usually people like others who like them. Few men want to be rejected when they approach you, so you have to give them a little to go on so they will want to make the first move. Sometimes the difference between him starting a conversation with you or your best friend is the girl who expressed interest in him. A warm friendly smile does wonders to make him want to approach you or ask you out.

3. What does your body language say about you?

Body language reveals a whole lot more about you then what you actually say. Slumping over or moving back and forth repeatedly does not convey self-assurance. Keep your posture straight. Moreover, if you are slouched or jittery, you make him more nervous. If you are relaxed and calm, you cause him to be more comfortable also.

4. Do you need too much support?

Confident individuals don’t need to be constantly reassured. If you want to do something, don’t look to others for approval. Just do it. If you need too much reassurance, it becomes a job for the other person. You are seen as needy. Be able to do things on your own. And more importantly, be yourself without questioning yourself.

MEGA TIP: The person who cares the least what other people think are usually the most confident. The key here is not to just go out in jogging pants and your old college tee because you don’t care what other people think. You want to look good, remember men are first visual creatures so if you look like a bum, he won’t be able to notice your great sense of self because chances are he isn’t looking your way. But it is important to have confidence in being your complete self and knowing that your ideas and views are just as important as others.

5. Do you have this quality?

When you think of bold people, shyness is not a defining quality that comes to mind. Being bold requires a certain level of confidence. It means being different, taking a chance. Get rid of your inhibitions and do something spontaneous. You will have fun and show others you aren’t afraid of risks or the judgment of others.

5 Advanced Techniques To Accelerate Attraction

• Women that have things going on in their lives:  No one want to be BORED with you. Find something you are interested in and be happy doing it. Men like women who genuinely have other things going on in their lives. Whether that is working out, sports, involved in the community, mentoring kids. – It’s just plain attractive. – Then you won’t have to play hard to get, because you will actually have a schedule to abide by.

• Women who like men: This might seem OBVIOUS, but some women have a chip on their shoulder from past relationships, and it shows.

• Women who take care of themselves: Women who spend time on their appearance and care how they look. It’s a fact, men like beautiful women, it’s not everything , but you should try your best to look your best everyday. You don’t have to be a supermodel! Just take some care.

• Women who wear skirts: Doesn’t have to be a mini skirt. How often do you see women with skirts on? Guarantee you if you wear a skirt, you will turn heads. Women just don’t wear them a lot, especially for work – we tend to wear what’s comfortable.

• Women who smile: Men LOVE LOVE LOVE women with a great smile. They can’t resist! Try it, smile at him it works!!!

How do you make a man want you more? In many aspects, making a man want you is like causing a man to fall in love. It’s a common mistake to share your feelings with a man or be overly aggressive when making a man want want. The way that works is a lot easier and feels better.

Confessing your true feelings to him, although seeming like a good idea, can cause him to pull further away then he was before. It causes men to give you the cold shoulder and express how they are just “too busy” for a relationship or to spend time right now. They may express how they “care” for you, but caring is not true affection.

Here are some tried and true methods to making him fall for you and want you more.

3 Simple Ways To Make A Guy Want You, Right Now

1. Do You Believe This?

Do you believe in yourself? This may sound really corny but if you do not believe that you can get a guy to want you, It will not happen. Period. Do you believe you are attractive and desirable? A lot of times it’s all in the mind.

How do you feel about yourself? You generally attract people that are going to support the same views about yourself that you have.

You can’t fake loving yourself, it will eventually come out and affect your close relationships.

I always suggest working on yourself first before attempting any attraction technique, loving yourself and believing in yourself is the main ingredient in attraction, point blank.

If you need help loving and believing in yourself, my 10 lesson attraction course is an excellent place to start, there I share how I transformed from a girl who knew nothing about attraction and men to the woman I am today who is confident in her marriage.

2. They’ve Made A Decision Within The First 3 Seconds

People often make judgements about you within the first 30 seconds of meeting you, and when it comes to potential interest, guys make this determination within the first 3 seconds.

This is more important for you than for him. Firstly you have to find something that you LOVE to wear. Not something you just like. Have you noticed how your attitude changes based on what you are wearing? I’m serious.

Usually when you FEEL that you look like a slob you are less outgoing and less likely to talk to people. If you feel good about what you are wearing, it brings out the best in you. Your personality starts to shine. You are happier and men will notice. Men like to be around happy women.

The second part of dressing the part once you have found an outfit that you LOVE is to get the opinions of a few close trustworthy friends on how the outfit looks. You want to make sure your outfit isn’t outdated or doesn’t fit you properly. You want to make sure you look GOOD.

3. Give Him The Green Light.

The third part of making a guy want you is giving him a little to go on. Smile at him. Men don’t like to be rejected so if you want him to approach you, you have to give him a sign that it is ok to approach you and that you will be receptive towards him.

Give him a little eye contact and a warm smile. This usually does the trick. Be careful not to be too forward, this usually turns masculine men off. This is because most men want to take on the pursuer role. Want might be the wrong word…it actually just comes natural to most men.

Since the beginning of time men have been the ones to provide and what’s more important is that a man LOVES it when he can provide for his woman. Now, if you are one of those women who feel that this is all bullcrap – women are equal to men and that you should be able to show him that you want him, you’ll want to read on – and if you’re not – you’ll want to read on also.

Although you can choose to take on the traditional masculine role and start taking control of the situation, you will need to find a feminine energy man to make the relationship work well.

This isn’t bad, it’s just your choice.

3 Things You Must Avoid – Or He Will Lose Interest:

1. Pursuing Him Or Asking Him Out

Once you fall in the cycle it’s difficult to get out. Plus, you will never know if he likes you.

2. Playing Hard To Get

He will find you out if you are not actually hard to get. The alternative to this is having a full life filled with things you love to do. If your schedule is filled with working out, volunteer activities or family commitments, you will be telling the truth when you say that you have previous plans.

This is what turns men on because they know you are less likely to be “needy” and dependent on them if you have other things going on in your life. A man wants to be a part of your world and not the wheels that keep it turning.

3. Playing Games

This never works long term, you end up hurting the man and yourself.

Playing games will not help, but understanding men and what they want will help tremendously. Watch this video on the Guy Magnet website to learn how to use your feminine power as a woman to attract and keep the right man for you.

DATER BEWARE: It is important to caution that if you ask a guy out the first time, you can fall into the cycle of always being the one to ask him out. He might always say yes, but If you want to be pursued instead of the chaser, you have to go a bit of time without asking him out, if he is interested he will ask you out because he misses your company.

Common Misconceptions About Making A Guy Want You:

You may believe to make a guy want you, you have to be extremely beautiful, a great conversationalist, and be willing to meet his every need.

This is false! This is one of the common misconceptions put out by mainstream media that causes a lot of women’s relationships to completely fall apart.

The truth about making a guy want you comes from a strong foundation within and applying attraction principles that work for men. If you are curious about how these work, learn what men truly desire in the woman they will commit to.