3 Things He Will Always Do…If He Really Likes You
You’re probably not a detective. But it seems like it takes detective skills to figure out if a guy likes you nowadays. If you are dating someone and you are confused about his feelings for you, it can be really frustrating. Should you continue spending time thinking about him or should you just move on?
There are also specific instances where he likes you but will not approach you. This could be because of several reasons, but the most common is that he isn’t sure if you like him. Men hate rejection just as much as women and if you aren’t giving him those clear signs that you like him, he is less likely to approach you.
And sometimes it just seems like he is playing games, that he is intentionally making you hot and cold for some reason beyond your understanding. You were clear about what you wanted, so why is he playing childish games?
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We’ve all been there, trying to determine if it he likes us enough to start a relationship or if it is just a little crush.
Here are some sure-fire ways to tell if he likes you
Actually, figuring out men isn’t all that difficult, you just have to know their language. And it’s completely different from the female language. If you are willing to get out of your comfort zone I am going to show you three fool-proof methods to determine if he likes you.
1. This is What He Should Be Assuming…
Does he make dates with you in advance? Men who are interested in a woman assume that other men are interested as well. If he’s interested he won’t chance calling you the same day of an event or the day he wants to take you out to ask you to accompany him.
If he does, he will acknowledge that it is last minute and understand that you might not be able to accompany him.
Rarely if Ever Do This, You Will Regret It!
Even if you are really into him and like him a lot, rarely should you accept an offer on the same day. Make your schedule for the week ahead of time and if you planned to curl up and watch a movie on the sofa or go out with a few friends, honor your plans to yourself and let him know you have already made plans. Otherwise you risk being too easy.
A lot of women mistakenly think by denying a man what he wants that he will lose interest. The opposite is actually true. His interest grows when he has to continue pursuing you.
But be careful not to play games with him. He will see right through them and you will be the one ultimately hurt in the end.
2. Have You Met This Person?
Has he introduced you to his family or friends? I’m not talking about his buddies that he chases women with; I’m talking about people who are really special to him.
If he’s bad mouthed his mom or tells you how he can’t stand his dad, him introducing you to them doesn’t say much.
Side Note: if he is doing this you don’t want a long term relationship with him anyway. – – > Usually, Men who don’t respect their families will have a tough time respecting you also.
You will want to meet the people who are special in his life. If he has a little sister that he talks about like she is a little princess and he introduces you to her, chances are that he is into you.
If he tells you how much he loves his grandmother and then he introduces you to her, this is a good sign that he likes you as well.
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3. Will he wait for you?
Some women will get offended if a guy waits too long to be intimate with them. They feel that he isn’t attracted to them or he doesn’t want a relationship with them. Understand that if you are feeling this way, it comes from your own insecurities and not the actual truth.
The truth is SOME men will wait to be intimate with a woman they deem as special.
On the other hand if he is making sexual advances on the first date, you can pretty much be sure that IS his FINAL goal. And once he gets it he will move to the next.
This is different from a man wanting to be intimate a few dates after. If you are uncomfortable with his advances, let him know you aren’t ready to take that step yet. A man who has feelings for you beyond getting you into bed will RESPECT your wishes to wait.
You should not get offended if a man wants to become intimate after dating for a while, he is just saying that his body is attracted to yours. If you are not ready, or you don’t have a commitment (imperative before becoming intimate), you should let him know that you aren’t ready for that step.
A man who is thinking more long term will respect your decision.
The Calling Test
When you are dating someone and unsure on whether they are truly interested in you or not, it can be tempting to continue calling to try to gauge their feelings, resist the urge.
Men run on a different clock then women. If you are dating it will be EASY for him to go a couple of weeks without calling. He can usually fill up his time with work, hanging out with friends, etc.
If after a couple of weeks, you don’t hear from him, don’t take too much offense.
If you want to call and ask his opinion on a subject or to just talk about how much fun you guys had the last time you went out, that’s permitted.
But under no circumstances should a call be made to scold him on why he didn’t call or to ask him his feelings for you, if you do this you are pretty much saying it’s ok if I don’t see you again.
The Biggest Mistake
One of the biggest mistakes you can make with calling men is calling him to ask him out. There was a guy I once dated and I always called him to ask him to go places with me.
It was very confusing for me because he ALWAYS said yes, but he never called me to ask me out. This is one of the most frustrating feelings is trying to determine if someone is going out with you because they can’t say no or if they are really interested in you.
So, if you want to avoid that awful feeling, it is best to allow him to call you and ask you out again. Then you can be sure that he is interested in going out with you. And his attraction will grow because he is doing the chasing.
If he goes 8 weeks without calling you, you can pretty much throw in the towel and continue or start dating other men. Guys usually WILL NOT call to tell you they are not interested. So you will have to take this as your final clue.
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