How do you make a man want you more? In many aspects, making a man want you is like causing a man to fall in love. It’s a common mistake to share your feelings with a man or be overly aggressive when making a man want want. The way that works is a lot easier and feels better.
Confessing your true feelings to him, although seeming like a good idea, can cause him to pull further away then he was before. It causes men to give you the cold shoulder and express how they are just “too busy” for a relationship or to spend time right now. They may express how they “care” for you, but caring is not true affection.
Here are some tried and true methods to making him fall for you and want you more.
3 Simple Ways To Make A Guy Want You, Right Now
1. Do You Believe This?
Do you believe in yourself? This may sound really corny but if you do not believe that you can get a guy to want you, It will not happen. Period. Do you believe you are attractive and desirable? A lot of times it’s all in the mind.
How do you feel about yourself? You generally attract people that are going to support the same views about yourself that you have.
You can’t fake loving yourself, it will eventually come out and affect your close relationships.
I always suggest working on yourself first before attempting any attraction technique, loving yourself and believing in yourself is the main ingredient in attraction, point blank.
If you need help loving and believing in yourself, my 10 lesson attraction course is an excellent place to start, there I share how I transformed from a girl who knew nothing about attraction and men to the woman I am today who is confident in her marriage.
2. They’ve Made A Decision Within The First 3 Seconds
People often make judgements about you within the first 30 seconds of meeting you, and when it comes to potential interest, guys make this determination within the first 3 seconds.
This is more important for you than for him. Firstly you have to find something that you LOVE to wear. Not something you just like. Have you noticed how your attitude changes based on what you are wearing? I’m serious.
Usually when you FEEL that you look like a slob you are less outgoing and less likely to talk to people. If you feel good about what you are wearing, it brings out the best in you. Your personality starts to shine. You are happier and men will notice. Men like to be around happy women.
The second part of dressing the part once you have found an outfit that you LOVE is to get the opinions of a few close trustworthy friends on how the outfit looks. You want to make sure your outfit isn’t outdated or doesn’t fit you properly. You want to make sure you look GOOD.
3. Give him the green light.
The third part of making a guy want you is giving him a little to go on. Smile at him. Men don’t like to be rejected so if you want him to approach you, you have to give him a sign that it is ok to approach you and that you will be receptive towards him.
Give him a little eye contact and a warm smile. This usually does the trick. Be careful not to be too forward, this usually turns masculine men off. This is because most men want to take on the pursuer role. Want might be the wrong word…it actually just comes natural to most men.
Since the beginning of time men have been the ones to provide and what’s more important is that a man LOVES it when he can provide for his woman. Now, if you are one of those women who feel that this is all bullcrap – women are equal to men and that you should be able to show him that you want him, you’ll want to read on – and if you’re not – you’ll want to read on also.
Although you can choose to take on the traditional masculine role and start taking control of the situation, you will need to find a feminine energy man to make the relationship work well.
This isn’t bad, it’s just your choice.
3 Things You Must Avoid – Or He Will Lose Interest:
1. Pursuing Him Or Asking Him Out
Once you fall in the cycle it’s difficult to get out. Plus, you will never know if he likes you.
2. Playing Hard To Get
He will find you out if you are not actually hard to get. The alternative to this is having a full life filled with things you love to do. If your schedule is filled with working out, volunteer activities or family commitments, you will be telling the truth when you say that you have previous plans.
This is what turns men on because they know you are less likely to be “needy” and dependent on them if you have other things going on in your life. A man wants to be a part of your world and not the wheels that keep it turning.
3. Playing Games
This never works long term, you end up hurting the man and yourself.
Playing games will not help, but understanding men and what they want will help tremendously. Watch this video on the Guy Magnet website to learn how to use your feminine power as a woman to attract and keep the right man for you.
DATER BEWARE: It is important to caution that if you ask a guy out the first time, you can fall into the cycle of always being the one to ask him out. He might always say yes, but If you want to be pursued instead of the chaser, you have to go a bit of time without asking him out, if he is interested he will ask you out because he misses your company.
Common misconceptions about making a guy want you:
You may believe to make a guy want you, you have to be extremely beautiful, a great conversationalist, and be willing to meet his every need.
This is false! This is one of the common misconceptions put out by mainstream media that causes a lot of women’s relationships to completely fall apart.
The truth about making a guy want you comes from a strong foundation within and applying attraction principles that work for men. If you are curious about how these work, learn what men truly desire in the woman they will commit to.