Make Him Want You – It Can Be Done! How To Pull It Off In 3 Steps
I’m going to share the three simple things you will need to know about making a man want you.
Note: If you don’t understand men, I can guarantee that you will have a lot of problems in your relationship. A lot of relationships fail or don’t even get started, not because of incompatibility but because of not understanding the opposite sex.
If you truly understood men and what causes them to do the things that you like and some of the things that you hate, you would be able to have the relationship that you’ve always dreamed of. One of my favorite sites, sharing exactly what makes men act and react in certain ways is one by Bob Grant, The Woman Men Adore.
3 Simple Ways To Make A Guy Want You, Right Now
1. Believe that it can happen
Do you believe in yourself? This may sound really corny but if you do not believe that you can get a guy to want you, It will not happen. Period. Do you believe you are attractive and desirable? Sometimes it’s all in the mind.
Start your day off with a song that is inspiring or gets you in the right frame of mind. Preferably a song that pumps you up. Have you heard, “I’m A Diva” by Beyonce? It will be difficult to not believe you are awesome after listening to that.
2. People Judge Books By Covers. Period!
This is more important for you than for him. Firstly you have to find something that you LOVE to wear. Not something you just like. Have you noticed how your attitude changes based on what you are wearing? I’m serious.
Usually when you FEEL that you look like a slob you are less outgoing and less likely to talk to people. If you feel good about what you are wearing, it brings out the best in you. Your personality starts to shine. You are happier and men will notice. Men like to be around happy women.
The second part of dressing the part once you have found an outfit that you LOVE is to get the opinions of a few close trustworthy friends on how the outfit looks. You want to make sure your outfit isn’t outdated or doesn’t fit you properly. You want to make sure you look GOOD.
3. Give him the green light.
The third part of making a guy want you is giving him a little to go on. Smile at him. Men don’t like to be rejected so if you want him to approach you, you have to give him a sign that it is ok to approach you and that you will be receptive towards him.
Give him a little eye contact and a warm smile. This usually does the trick. Be careful not to be too forward, this usually turns masculine men off. This is because most men want to take on the pursuer role. Want might be the wrong word…it actually just comes natural to most men.
Since the beginning of time men have been the ones to provide and what’s more important is that a man LOVES it when he can provide for his woman. Now, if you are one of those women who feel that this is all bullcrap – women are equal to men and that you should be able to show him that you want him, you’ll want to read on – and if you’re not – you’ll want to read on also.
Although you can choose to take on the traditional masculine role and start taking control of the situation, you will need to find a feminine energy man to make the relationship work well.
This isn’t bad, it’s just your choice.
If you are finding that you are using this masculine energy but want to move more towards a feminine energy, I’m going to suggest visiting Bob Grant’s website on The Woman Men Adore And Never Want To Leave. He offers a few tips on how to do this easily.
3 Things You Must Avoid – Or He Will Lose Interest:
1. Pursuing Him Or Asking Him Out
Once you fall in the cycle it’s difficult to get out. Plus, you will never know if he likes you.
2. Playing Hard To Get
He will find you out if you are not actually hard to get. The alternative to this is having a full life filled with things you love to do. If your schedule is filled with working out, volunteer activities or family commitments, you will be telling the truth when you say that you have previous plans.
This is what turns men on because they know you are less likely to be “needy” and dependent on them if you have other things going on in your life. A man wants to be a part of your world and not the wheels that keep it turning.
3. Playing Games
This never works long term, you end up hurting the man and yourself.
DATER BEWARE: It is important to caution that if you ask a guy out the first time, you can fall into the cycle of always being the one to ask him out. He might always say yes, but If you want to be pursued instead of the chaser, you have to go a bit of time without asking him out, if he is interested he will ask you out because he misses your company.
Common misconceptions about making a guy want you:
You may believe to make a guy want you, you have to be extremely beautiful, a great conversationalist, and be willing to meet his every need.
This is false! This is one of the common misconceptions put out by mainstream media that causes a lot of women’s relationships to completely fall apart. You may have even caught yourself doing things you wouldn’t normally do just to make a guy “want you”.
The truth is…it is a whole lot easier to make a guy want you when you actually understand men and what drives them to want a woman. If you go through life not knowing what men actually want in and from a woman, you will find yourself being frustrated when you try to please him and he just ignores you or even worse leaves the relationship.
The Biggest Problem Women Have:
The biggest problem women have in relationships and dating situations is not knowing how to bring out the best in men. How else do you explain a man not giving to one woman in a relationship and then turning around and giving another the world?
It has nothing to do with how much money he has or the looks of the woman. It has everything to do with understanding what it takes to bring out the best in men. When you bring out the best in a man he will discover new ways to supply your wants and needs.
Becoming this type of woman that a man wants to please is not difficult at all. You just have to understand what motivates men to do the things they do. That’s it. Only then will you experience the type of love that makes him think of NEW WAYS to please you.
In fact the two things that get women in the most trouble with relationships is listening to girlfriends advice about men and reading women’s magazines on relationships. Both of these will cause you to get deeper and deeper into relationship troubles.
Your girlfriends can only give you advice based on their limited experiences and magazines, probably worse than talking to friends only tell you what to do or say to impress other FEMALES. I want to invite you to visit Bob Grant’s website, The Woman Men Adore And Never Want To Leave, provides a ton of information on what men really find desirable.
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