Signs He Likes Me

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Signs He Likes Me How to tell if someone is NOT attracted to you

Sometimes you will find yourself in a situation where you are attracted to someone who is not attracted to you.

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The problem here is  if you don’t know , you will be left feeling not only disappointed, but embarrassed and humiliated too.

So you want to know the negative signs : Signs he likes me NOT?

The following signals are not signs he likes me and are a pretty good indication that they are probably not as attracted to you (if at all) as you might like them to be:

• They avert their eyes when talking to you.  Usually when someone is hiding something from you, they won’t be able to maintain eye contact with you.  If this is what they do, be very aware.

• They have asked you for your phone number, but won’t give you theirs (don’t call me, I’ll call you).  If they really want you to be able to contact them, they will give you their number.

• They say they are going to call and they don’t.  Ok, there could be a good excuse for this (and it had better be a good one!), however we all know it only takes two seconds to make a quick call or even send a text message! Or if you call them and they say they will call you right back and don’t ever get around to it.

• Does he continue to date other people? If so, then they do NOT only have eyes for you.  If they were really attracted to you, then why do they need to date others?

• You call them 90% of the time.  If they rarely, if ever call you then chances are they aren’t as interested in you as you are in them.

• They always makes up excuses as to why they can’t meet your friends or family.  Why wouldn’t someone want to meet your friends and family if they really were attracted to you and wanted things to last?

• They told you they weren’t attracted to you (ok, that’s pretty obvious!)

• They forgot your birthday – again.  If they forget important dates or events in your life, then they don’t place much importance on these dates in your life.  You deserve better.

• They only answer their phone when they don’t know it is you calling.  This person is too scared to tell you they’re not interested, so will avoid talking to you for as long as possible in hope that you will give up and move on.

DATER BEWARE: Sometimes it is difficult to tell if he is attracted to you or not if he is genuinely a nice person and does not want to hurt you. Or you could be confused by a person who is just simply a good conversationalist.  Sometimes people just enjoy talking to other people and you should not mistake this as an attraction sign.

Regardless of whether he shows signs he likes me, here’s some tips on how we can be more attractive to others

Believe it or not, being more attractive to others has more to do with how you think and feel on the inside than what you look like on the outside.

• Holding your head high, smiling at people, having an air of confidence and knowing deep down inside that you are worthy of meeting Mr/Ms Right is a good start.

• Having some level of confidence is the key to being attractive to others because people like people who seem happy within themselves.

• Boosting your confidence can be done in the following ways:

• Dress yourself in something you know you look good in.  Knowing you look good makes you feel better about yourself.  If you feel better about yourself, it shows.

• Start telling yourself that you are worthy of meeting someone who will love you just the way you are.  Tell yourself a lie often enough and you will start to believe it!

• Think about the type of person you would like to have attracted to you.  If you were that type of person, would you be attracted to you (forget about looks – if they don’t like you because of the way you look, then are they really worth your time?)?

MEGA TIP: If someone really likes you they will find a way to be with you.  Even if they’re shy, they will find an excuse to see you or call you.  If you like them and they haven’t shown any attraction signs but they’ve not given any of the “keep away” signals, then start to show them how you feel and see what kind of reaction you get.  If they respond in a good way, then you know that maybe you have a future together.

There is no better way however, than coming out and asking someone how they feel.  You never know, if they feel the way you do, then you will start on a journey of love and happiness together!

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