Robyn Lee

Questions to Ask a Guy

True story: a friend of mine met a guy who asked for her phone number and Snapchat username so he could text her. For over a week, their conversations went something like this:

Him: Wyd?

Her: Not much. Wyd?

Him: Talking to the most beautiful girl in the world.

Her, gagging, but still trying to keep the conversation going: What did you do today? Anything fun?

Him: It was all pretty boring…until I go to talk to you.

Her: *gags* *rolls eyes* *puts phone down and gets back to real life*

Day after day, that was the extent of the conversation. Eventually, when it became apparent that this guy’s soul was about as deep as a puddle, my friend cut him off. But it got me thinking, what are some interesting questions to ask a guy to really get to know him? What questions can you ask to engage a guy’s attention, get a conversation going, and move the conversation to the next level?

In a world where most people get to know each other via text and social media, it can be hard to know how to what to ask to get a good conversation going. Asking the right questions is a vital part of that process.

So this post comes to you in several parts. Some of these are great questions to ask a guy you like, or a guy you want to get to know. They’re good for one-on-one conversation, and some are good questions to ask guys over text. Some of them would be great to ask a guy friend…or perhaps someone you’d like to be more than a friend.

Good Questions to Get to Know a Guy You Just Met

There are lots of posts out there with suggested questions to ask a guy, questions like, “If you could be any fictional character, who would it be?” or, “If you could live on a fictional planet, what color would the grass be?” All in all, they’re not bad questions, but they don’t take into account one very important factor: YOU JUST MET THIS GUY. Save the questions that will require some deeper thought (not to mention creativity) for a little later, and don’t be afraid to start with the basics.

What do you like to do on the weekends?

What do you do to chill after a long day?

Which do you prefer: books, movies, or television?

The answer to #3 will determine some follow up questions, like:

Who is your favorite author?
What kind of movies do you like?
What is the last show you binge watched?

Do you prefer sports or video games?

Do you prefer cats or dogs?

What do you do for a living?

What is your dream job?

If you could remove one color from the world, what would it be?

If you could remove one person from your life, who would it be?

What was your favorite movie as a child?

Here are some more interesting things to ask a guy by text:

What would you do if you could be invisible for a day?

If you could change anything about yourself, what would it be?

Do you like your name? What would you change it to?

If your house was on fire and you could only save one thing, what would it be?

What is your most sentimental possession?

These are all good things to ask to get to know a guy you just met. They’re light, easy, and don’t require much thought. But let’s say you’re ready to take the conversation to the next level…

Good Questions to Ask to Get to Know a Guy Better

These questions are great when you’re past the “just met” phase, but still have a long way to go to the “soul mate” stage. Here are some more great questions to get to know him. Pay close attention to his answers to these questions, and remember to follow up. These are just conversation STARTERS. It’ll be up to you to keep the conversation going! Some of these questions are simple suggestions to get you thinking. Use your imagination and your personality to make them awesome!

If you could be famous for something, what would it be?

If you could live anywhere in the world, where would you choose?

Which are you most afraid of: spiders or snakes? Heights or failure? Clowns or never seeing the Super Bowl in person?

As a child, which rule did you enjoy breaking the most?

Who is your best friend?

Seems pretty basic, right? But this is ALWAYS a good question to ask a guy you like because it proves that you’re really interested in getting to know him.

Follow up questions:

How long have you known him/her?
How did you meet?
What is the craziest thing you’ve done together?

The next few sections are themed questions. These are interesting questions to ask a guy at any stage in the relationship, but they can be especially fun while you’re still in the “getting to know each other” stage.

Questions about “firsts”

Who was your first love?

What was the first movie that made you cry?

How old were you the first time you kissed someone?

What was your first broken bone?

What was your first concert?

Questions about “lasts”

What was the last movie you watched/book you read?

Who was the last person to break your heart?

What was the last thing you did that you instantly regretted?

What would you like your last words to be?

Who is the last person you kissed?

Questions about family

Depending on how long you’ve known the guy you’re trying to get to know better, these can be tricky questions. You never know what kind of family questions will trigger emotion, so proceed with caution!

How many siblings do you have?

Are your parents still together?

Who is your favorite cousin/sibling/aunt/uncle/pet?

What are your family reunions like?

Did your parents (or guardians, grandparents, etc.) ever have a specific dream for your life?

“Have you ever” questions

My suggestions here are pretty tame, but feel free to use your imagination 😉

Have you ever stolen something from a store?

Have you ever felt “love at first sight”?

Have you ever gone skinny dipping?

Have you ever dined and dashed?

Have you ever gotten lost and turned it into an adventure?

“What’s the Weirdest” questions

What’s the weirdest song on your playlist?

What is the weirdest food you’ve ever eaten?

What is your weirdest superstition?

What is your weirdest dream job?

What do you consider to be the weirdest thing about yourself?

“Would you rather” questions

Would you rather go on a blind date or hang out with your grandma?

Would you rather live in a world without coffee or French fries?

If you had to choose, would you rather be blind or deaf?

Would you rather live in a world without books or without social media?

Would you rather lose all your hair or have to spend a month dressed as the opposite gender?

Questions to Ask a Guy on a Date

Okay, so you’ve been texting for a while, and it’s time to take the next step: an actual date. These questions will help you keep the conversation going if you find yourselves falling into an awkward silence. For more questions and great advice on navigating that first date, click here.

What kind of things really make you laugh?

What is your favorite place in the entire world?

What is your biggest goal in life right now?

Follow up questions to this one might be:

What is the next step you need to take to reach that goal?
What, if anything, is standing in your way?

What were you like as a kid? or a teenager?

What is your biggest pet peeve?

What terrible movie do you love?

Do you quote TV or movies in normal conversation? What’s your most used catch phrase?

What song do you know every single word to?

What character on TV do you find most annoying?

What do you think is the most annoying song on the radio right now?

What is the craziest thing you’ve ever done?

Truth Questions to Ask a Guy

Truth questions for guys can be tricky, so you might save these to use as questions to ask the guy you’re dating. Remember, be prepared to answer these yourself! Never ask a guy you like questions that you aren’t willing to answer. In fact, in order to break the ice, it might be better to tell him your answer while he’s thinking of his own.

What are you most self-conscious about?

What do most of your friends believe about you that is totally untrue?

What is the biggest lie you ever told just to impress a girl?

What is the silliest thing you have an emotional attachment to?

What is the most embarrassing thing you’ve ever been caught doing?

What is the most embarrassing thing you’ve ever caught someone else doing?

Have you ever loved someone who didn’t love you back?

What do you really hope your parents never find out about?

Are you a natural risk taker?

What is the riskiest thing you’ve ever done?

What is your go-to guilty pleasure movie, TV show, or food?

What is the most embarrassing picture on your phone?

How often do you take a selfie?

Have ever sent a dirty picture of yourself?

Have you ever asked someone to send you a dirty picture?

Serious Relationship Questions to Ask a Guy

Okay, you’ve made it past the dating stage and you’re developing a serious relationship. What are some good relationship questions to ask a guy, things you’d really like to know? What are some important questions to ask?

CAUTION: Sometimes a girl’s idea of what a “serious relationship” is doesn’t match the guy’s idea. Only ask the following questions if you’re sure you’re on the same page, AKA, you know these questions won’t run him off.

CAUTION AGAIN: Some of these questions might be deal breakers for you in your relationship. Only ask them if you really want to know the answers.

Do you have any close female relationships other than me?

Do you have feelings for any of your exes?

How do you respond when something makes you angry?

What experience has most shaped who you are today?

What first attracted you to me?

Who, if anyone, are you holding a grudge against right now?

Where do you see yourself in five years?

If you were offered a dream job in another location, would you ask me to move with you?

Do you have financial goals, like savings or retirement, and how much of a priority are they?

If I asked one of your exes how you treated them, what would they say?

What’s more important to you: working toward a goal or living in the moment?

Do you want to have children someday?

What type of affection is most annoying to you?

How do you prefer to show affection?

If I had a middle of the night emergency, would you want me to call you?

Love Questions to Ask a Guy

Now that you’re in a serious relationship, there might still be some questions that you haven’t asked and he hasn’t answered on his own. If you’re looking to build intimacy, there are certain love questions to ask him to help get the ball rolling. Or maybe there are just some things you want to know! Read on for suggestions to ask the guy you think you might be in love with, or who you think might be in love with you.

REMEMBER TO RECIPROCATE! Be sure to answer every one of these questions (except for maybe the last one), even if he doesn’t ask them directly.

What was the first thing you noticed about me?

What was your first impression of me?

Did your first impression change after our first date?

Is there anything you’ve ever wanted to ask me, but haven’t had the courage?

What does being in love feel like for you?

Have I ever done or said something that hurt you unintentionally?

This might be the best question to ask a guy you want to have a long-term relationship with. If he answers honestly it will give you a lot of insight into his emotional needs and can help you figure out your role in meeting those needs.

Questions to Ask a Guy Friend

Whew! That’s a lot of questions! But you’ll notice the progression of this post doesn’t account for every scenario. What if you meet a guy, begin texting, maybe even go on a date, but then realize you make better friends than lovers? What are some good questions to ask a guy FRIEND?

Truthfully, you could just read back through this list and find some great questions to help you get to know a guy friend. Some of them might be even funnier and less awkward when you’re asking them without the pressure of a romantic relationship gripping the two of you like a vice.

Questions like “Who is your best friend?” are still important – perhaps even more so, now that you’ve drawn the “just friends” boundary line. And questions about his family might seem more like a friendly “get to know you” discussion and less like an interrogation ala [insert any TV crime drama here] if he doesn’t think you’re grilling him for information about his history and background to search out commitment issues.

Still, if you’re looking for more suggestions about what questions to ask a guy keep the conversation going, here are a few that are great questions to ask guy friends, whether you’re looking to take your friendship to the next level or not.

If you could travel anywhere in the world, where would it be? How long would you stay? Can I go in your suitcase?

What song always puts you in a good mood when you hear it?

What song makes you think of something sad every time?

What was your favorite TV show to watch with your family?

What food always puts you in a good mood?

Who is the funniest/meanest/smartest person you know?

What was the best vacation you’ve ever had?

What one word would you use to describe yourself?

What one word would you use to describe me?

What is the one thing that you wished everyone (or someone in particular) would notice about you?

What do you think people notice first about you?

Have you ever met a famous person?

What famous person would you love to meet?

What is your greatest, silliest skill?

What is the skill you’ve given up trying to learn?

Do you play (or wish you could play) any musical instruments?

Who has had the most positive influence on your life?

Would you consider yourself a role model?

If you knew you could try one thing without failing, what would it be?

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How to Keep Your Husband Interested: 4 Steps That Work

Regardless of how long you’ve been married, chances are that you’ve wondered how to keep your husband interested in you. If you haven’t yet, good for you! But the day that you do will eventually come because, when the honeymoon ends and life begins, marriage requires us to be intentional about keeping the spark alive.

So if you’re wondering how to keep your husband interested in you, or how to regain his attention if you’re afraid you’ve lost it, read on, my friends! Today’s post is just for you.

STEP ONE: Acknowledge his needs.

Here’s the thing about relationships: in the beginning, the universe seems to revolve around the other person. As we fall in love, our thoughts and feelings orbit the other person like the Earth orbits the sun. The trouble comes when we move past “he is the center of my universe” and settle quietly into “I am the center of my universe and I better be the center of his, too.”

Not that any of us would ever say that out loud.

Or even think it to ourselves.

Our attitudes and actions though…they give us away every time.

So if you’re looking for ways to regain your husband’s attention, give some thought to his needs, wants, and desires.

Here’s a personal example: my husband loves drag racing. He loves talking about it, watching it on TV, spending hours at the track enjoying its glories in real life, and dreaming of the car he’ll someday own and race for himself.

I, the other hand, love not drag racing. I love not talking about it, not watching it on TV, definitely not spending hours at the race track or dreaming with him about the car I secretly (or not so secretly) hope he’ll never own.

In other words, I have spent the majority of our marriage doing my best to minimize a very real desire of my husband’s heart. When he brings up the subject of drag racing, my eyes glaze over (of their own volition, I swear), my attention wanders, and eventually I begin to drool. When he wants to go to the track I send him off with a wave and a “have fun!” because he learned long ago it’s no use inviting me.

I cannot tell you honestly that any of that will change in the near future, but I can say that I recognize the damage my attitude could cause to our relationship if I don’t take steps to validate his needs. Sure, my ideal weekend is to sit on the couch, drink wine, and watch Netflix rather than…well, whatever happens at a drag track. But the world, rudely enough, does not revolve around me.

In order to keep my husband’s interest, I need to acknowledge with my words and actions that his interests, needs, and desires are important to me, too.

This cute video is the perfect example. While you may not have to do what the wife in the video does to get her husband’s attention, remember: she knows what interests him, and she makes herself available to be a part of it.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Umv3q9HUP8c

Which leads me to STEP TWO: Leave NO DOUBT you’re still interested in HIM.

I’ve read or heard somewhere that, sexually speaking, men are like microwaves and women are like crockpots. While your husband may be ready to go anywhere, anytime, you are more likely to need a little more time to warm up. While some of the responsibility for warming you up falls on what do men really want in their woman your husband (“foreplay starts in the morning” is another line I’ve heard but can’t say from where), there are things that YOU can do to keep you cooking throughout the day.

Because here’s the truth: your husband needs to know you want him. He needs to know that you long to be with him on an emotional and physical level. For men, that need is often met through physical intimacy. In fact, sex is almost always the answer to the “How do I get my husband’s attention” question.

So to help keep you interested in him, the ladies over at To Love, Honor & Vacuum have a great post about little ways you can flirt with your husband that will help keep your mind focused on physical intimacy throughout the day so that both of you are ready when the opportunity arises (no pun intended).

Side note: I had a friend once tell me that she and her hubs took an afternoon nap together (*wink wink* *nudge nudge*), and after the actual nap she got up to find that her husband had cleaned the kitchen and done the dishes. She said, “I guess it goes to show that when you meet his needs, he’ll meet yours.”

Indeed, it does.

Step three: DON’T BE A “JUST.”

I know you’ve heard the terms (or seen the bumper stickers) that refer to certain women as “Soccer Moms,” “Cheer Moms,” or “Baseball Moms.” We also now have “mommy bloggers” and “helicopter moms” and, in certain circles, “homeschool moms.”

First, I’d like to say that I get it. I really do. Being a mom is a huge part of many women’s lives. It’s an 18+ year commitment of putting someone else first and making sure their needs are met, ensuring that their every talent is given the opportunity to grow and bloom, and blah blah blah.

I know that sounds suspiciously like sarcasm, but as a homeschooling mom AND a mom of kids who drag race, I really do get it.

Secondly, however, I’d like to say this: yuck.

Just, yuck. So often when I talk to women about their passions, their hobbies, or their desires to “be the change [they] want to see in the world,” their answers revolve around their children. These women – strong, wise, talented women – see themselves as “just moms.”

Before you grab your torches and pitchforks, hear me out. When we as women relegate ourselves to the “just” category in any area (just a mom, just a wife, just an astronaut – though admittedly that would be pretty cool) we deny huge and fundamental parts of who we are.

In doing so we also make ourselves categorically uninteresting.

So, if you’re afraid you’ve lost your husband’s interest, or you’re wondering how to keep your husband interested in you, take a look at who you are.

Have you become “just a mom”?

Have you become “just a wife”?

Or are you pursuing the parts of yourself that make up the fullness of who you are? There is nothing wrong with being a soccer mom, a baseball mom, or a drag racing mom (though I wouldn’t wish that kind of boredom on anyone), as long as that’s not ALL of who you are.

So, if you woke up this morning thinking, “I wonder how I can keep my husband interested in me,” my advice to you is this: YOU take an interest in you, and his interest will most certainly follow.

And now for Step four: BE CONFIDENT IN YOUR RELATIONSHIP.

Women tend to have a bad reputation for being jealous, clingy, and demanding. Oftentimes, our jealous, clingy, and demanding ways come from insecurity. For reasons that may or may not have anything to do with our husbands, we don’t feel secure in our relationship, so we insist our partner cater to our insecurities. That might look like reading through his text messages when he’s not looking, asking incessantly about the women he works with, or accusing him of eyeing every pretty girl that walks by.

All of those actions (and many like them) drive our husbands away. They show that you don’t trust your husband’s honor and integrity. They tell him that nothing he does will ever prove to you that he’s faithful, committed, or fully-engaged in your relationship. They may even push him to give up trying to prove he’s faithful and committed…and that can only end badly for both of you.

But you might be saying, “My husband has cheated on me. He has been unfaithful. He has given me reason to believe that he’s not faithful and committed.”

In those cases, don’t despair! Communication is key. It might be time to seek out marriage counseling, whether online [j1] or in person, to get your insecurities out in the open so you can work through them.

So there you have it! Four ways to keep your husband interested in you: acknowledge his needs, leave no doubt of your interest in him, take an interest in yourself, and learn to be confident in your relationship.

Let’s keep the conversation going! In the comments, share your story. How long have you been married? What have you done to keep your husband’s interest? What have you found that works and what doesn’t?

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Is Online Marriage Counseling Right for You?

Here at Relationship Blackbook, we care about helping you through every stage of your relationship, especially if the stage you’re in is a painful one. If you and your spouse are in one of those painful stages, first we want you to know that you’re not alone. Every marriage goes through difficult seasons for so many different reasons: affairs, lack of intimacy, lack of communication, and a host of other issues that arise when two people attempt to blend their lives together.

Marriage counseling is always a great option for couples who need help working through their issues, but making time for weekly or even bi-weekly appointments with a marriage counselor can be difficult, not to mention costly.

That’s why we want to examine a different option for struggling relationships: online marriage counseling. We want to help you answer the question, “Is online marriage counseling right for my marriage?”

Though it would be nice if a husband and wife could just hit a magical pause button when married life gets hard, that is far from the case. Life goes on – work and errands, sports practice and dance class – while mom and dad struggle silently in the background, wishing and longing for an opportunity to talk, to work things out, but never finding it.

According to Psychology Today, online marriage counseling is an effective alternative for couples who can’t work traditional marital counseling into their busy lives. But you might be wondering…What is online marriage counseling?

Here is a another valid question: How on earth can a struggling married couple receive valuable marital counseling online?

The answer: In a world of high-speed internet access and Skype calls that allow you to talk face-to-face with another human being half a country or even an entire world away…well, anything is possible.

For example, services like SaveMyMarriageToday.com offer countless resources on their website for struggling married couples, including real tools and exercises to help you resolve your marital problems.

Other websites offer trained counselors to meet with you via Skype to help you identify and work through the issues that are causing disruption in your marriage.

Can’t work a weekly meeting with a counselor in the city into your busy schedules?

Do you feel more comfortable discussing your issues in the privacy of your own home?

Would you rather develop the emotional intimacy that comes with privately working through your issues together?

If you answer yes to any one of those questions, then marriage counseling online might be exactly the thing that you’re struggling marriage needs.

What are the benefits of online marital counseling?

As with all marriage counseling, consistency is the key to success. In the beginning, a couple traditionally meets with the counselor on a weekly basis, moving to a bi-weekly or monthly basis after several successful months have passed.

However, our lives don’t always allow for time off work or away from kids and family long enough to incorporate a counseling session into our weekly schedules. That’s why the first benefit of online marriage counseling is flexibility.

It allows you and your spouse to work through the material, meet with your counselor via Skype, and complete the exercises in your own time. BUT, you and your spouse will still have to commit to the process and make the most of it. No program, regardless of how convenient it might be, will work if you don’t use it.

A second benefit of online marital counseling is extended emotional intimacy.

In a perfect world, a couple who seeks marriage counseling would arrive at the appointment together, spend the hour or so with the therapist, and then have the drive home to continue the conversation.

But this isn’t a perfect world.

A more likely scenario is this:

A couple arrives to the appointment separately, harried and rushed due to traffic, hectic work schedules, or babysitter difficulties.
The couple sits in awkward silence in a quiet waiting room, possibly both reliving their most recent attempt at communication, i.e. the argument they had right before both sped off in different directions for the day.
Despite it all, the couple has a positive session with the counselor, opening lines of communication, building trust, and getting to the root of their issues.
Then the session ends. Each member exits to their respective cars, rushes off to pick up kids, figure out dinner, or fight traffic on the drive home or back to work, and every shred of the new-found emotional intimacy is lost.

Online marriage counseling offers a different scenario. Instead of rushing off in two different directions after a session ends, the couple gets to spend as much time as they want discussing the material – or anything else – in the comfort of their own home.

In other words, the session ends when you need it to end, and not a minute before.

A third benefit to online marriage counseling is privacy.

In traditional counseling, not only does a couple have to exit their comfort zone to seek help for private matters, but they also have to explain those matters to a complete stranger.

Completing marriage counseling online provides a safe, private avenue for working through your issues, whether you find a service that provides a trained counselor through Skype or online chatting, or if you use a service that simply provides helpful materials and support.

In many couples, there is one who is more reluctant to seek out marriage counseling for a variety of reasons. One of those reasons is often an issue of privacy. Online marital counseling resolves that issue, allowing one or both members of the couple to feel comfortable getting help while still having their needs for privacy met.

Still not convinced? Below video discusses some of the issues you should consider when making the decision about whether or not online marriage counseling is the right choice for you and your spouse:

Finally, there is a fourth and very obvious benefit of doing your marriage counseling online: affordability.

In-office marriage counseling can be expensive. Most couples do not have thousands of dollars to spend on counseling, no matter how necessary or beneficial it is.

However, services that offer online marriage counseling, whether through a trained, in-person counselor via Skype or chat, or through materials you work through on your own, are often a fraction of the price of traditional counseling.

In addition to those services, the internet offers a wealth of free online marriage counseling materials. With a little research, you can find the right material, advice, or counsel for the exact problems you’re facing.

Conclusion

Every marriage is worth fighting for, but life does not always make time for the right battles to be fought at the right time. Traditional marriage counseling provides a safe way to work through your issues, but it doesn’t always meet the needs of everyday life.

Online marriage counseling is an excellent alternative for the couple who needs help but can’t make traditional counseling work.

Let’s keep the conversation going! Have you and your spouse utilized online marriage counseling? What did you like about it? How did it help? Let us know in the comments!

Guy Magnet System Review: 6 Reasons Why This Is A Top Rated Product

Why does Relationship Blackbook recommend Guy Magnet as its top product?

I was having a conversation with one of my male friends and we started talking about relationships. He asked me why so many women are not students of love? I’m sorry, maybe I’m getting a bit ahead of myself. He knows that I write about relationships and he was getting annoyed by all the women in his life being used and abused by men.

He was mainly frustrated because it seemed like the women he knew kept getting into relationships that didn’t serve them properly or they had trouble getting into relationships in the first place. On the surface, it seemed as if these women shouldn’t have been in the predicament they were in. They were attractive, knew what they wanted with their life, but still had trouble in the relationship realm.

I’m average looking…how did I attract a man that adores, respects, and uplifts me?

And here I was, a very average looking woman, able to attract a great man and grow an amazing family with him. What had I done differently to not only attract the relationship I wanted but to maintain a good relationship? Why hadn’t other women studied relationships like myself?

I think it has a lot to do with the notion that there is this “soul mate” out there somewhere and all we have to do is date and date and date until he shows himself to us. There’s nothing else that needs to be done.

Well, that’s just not true.

Even if you meet your soul mate, someone that you connect with on a very personal level, if you don’t know how to maintain that relationship, you can lose them. And in fact, many women do.

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They don’t have the tools they need to maintain a good relationship with the right man. So in this post, I’m going to share why Guy Magnet is one of my favorite tools to learning how to do the right things to get into a relationship with the man who is right for you.

Guy Magnet Rating:

4.5/5 Starts

The Guy Magnet System Review:

I’m giving the Guy Magnet by James Scott 4.5 out of 5 stars. You’ll see why I deduct my .5 of a star later in the review, or you can just scroll down and see my biggest gripe with the product right away. It’s a small, but a huge gripe! – You’ll see what I mean.

This product is a superb product for any woman wanting to be in a long term relationship with the right man. Not only does the system share with you high level tips you can use right away to see a huge difference in the attitudes and actions of men that you want to be in a relationship with or that you already are – it tells you why the techniques work.

Pros:

Techniques and Strategies That Work

The techniques in this system are solid. I know they work because I have used them successfully on my husband before we married. The book details powerful emotional triggers that cause men to behave in a certain way.

You Get More Than You Pay For

This system comes with lots of extras. When I purchased it came with 6 other systems all focused on attracting and maintaining a healthy relationship. And if you are in a relationship, determining whether it is worth it to repair or just give up on.

Happy Customers

I have not had one return on this product all year. Out of all the customers who have purchased this product for the site this year, there have been absolutely no returns, so that tells me other people love the product as much as I do.

Organized Nicely

This book is broken up into 33 sections, so it is nicely organized so you can read it all the way through, or you can skip through the sections to get the information you need at the moment.

Fast Delivery

This manual is sent to your inbox as soon as you order it, so you don’t have to worry about shipping costs or waiting for it to arrive. You are able to use it right away.

60 Day Money Back Guarantee AND Keep the System

This product has a 60 Day money back guarantee. And if by some chance you don’t like the information in this system, even if you request a speedy refund, you still get to keep downloaded system.

Cons:

Sales Page and Video SUCK!!!!!

I really hate that such a helpful product to all women, has such a sucky sales page. I’m not sure who wrote the material for the sales page, but it certainly wasn’t the author of the system themselves.

The sales page tries to use emotional triggers in women to sell the product, when they really don’t need to because it is a fantastic product.

Possible Information Overload

This system has so much helpful information that it can be easy to get overwhelmed by the sheer volume of it. I would suggest taking one section at a time, learning the techniques and then moving on to the next one.

Top Sections In This System

The Most Vital Key To Getting What You Want Out Of A Relationship
Making a Reluctant Man Commit
How to Stop Ending up with Losers
Deciphering His Hidden Messages and Discovering The Truth
Psychologically Training Your Man: Out with the Bad, In with the Good
Breaking Down the Call Back
The Most Dangerous Mistakes to Make Around Men

Conclusion:

The Guy Magnet System by James Scott is an excellent system for women who want to get into real loving relationships. I would recommend it to any woman who has frustrations when it comes to relationships, so you can know WHY it is happening and what strategies you can use to create the relationship you want.

You can purchase it now, by visiting this link, please don’t fault me on the sales page, I warned you, it’s pretty bad:

Sales Page Note: If you want to bypass the sales page/video, you can exit out the page and then visit the page again, where you will get the option to add the program to your cart.

How To Get Him To Commit: 2 Powerful & Efficient Strategies

When it seems like you have been dating forever and you are doing everything right to make him want to commit to you, it can be frustrating when he doesn’t make it official and commit. Is he playing games? It may even seem like he goes back and forth and doesn’t know what he really wants. What makes a man want to commit? What makes men fearful about committing to a woman?

There are some very logical reasons why a man will drag his feet when you are ready to have him commit. 99% of the time the reason a man won’t commit is because he does not have a compelling reason to commit. You can create this compelling reason by using “exclusivity” and keeping the relationship “open”. Men commit when they fear that they will lose a woman that they are truly interested in. They don’t want someone else sneaking in and taking what is theirs! So how do you make him see you as “the one”?

I use my guy magnet program often, even though I’m married now, to keep the spice in our relationship. I’m going to share with you two techniques that are in the program that have made a major shift in my relationships and my marriage. It’s really basic psychology, but when you use it in relationships, you’d be surprised at the dramatic shifts that occur.

For instance, he will call more, he will be the one that brings up the commitment conversation, he will want to spend more time with you, and he will defend you if anyone says anything negative about you. When he has fallen for you, he will put up with your little moments of “crazy” (we all have them, lol – and if you don’t, lucky you!) but still be head over heels for you. AND you will find that other men react differently to you too. You will wonder why a man still keeps in contact with you even though you didn’t really feel a “spark” or strong connection with him.

But the most important thing is that you will have valuable tools that can be used that will build your relationship on solid ground and it won’t be able to be shaken by many things. Once you use these strategies, you will even be able to determine if the men you date are even worth your time. This will make it easier to spend more time with the man who is right for you, and let go of all the game players and men that don’t truly know what they want.

You will find that you will attract the right man effortlessly while many of your girlfriends will be clueless as to what they are doing wrong to make a man pull away.

If you already have the guy magnet program, I encourage you to go through it twice or dust it off. The techniques and strategies in the program WORK.

I can’t say enough good things about my guy magnet program, if you don’t already have it, you can get it here.

Powerful Strategy #1

Exclusivity

I love this strategy. I did this unknowingly on my husband when we first met and I would always wonder why he kept calling even though I was not giving him any clear indication that I was into him. I always was “too busy” to get together. I actually did have a lot of things going on. And when he asked me out, it was difficult coming up with a time that worked (because my schedule was “full”).

When you think about what makes a person appear to be “desirable”, one indispensable quality is just how valuable it feels spending time with that person. If you know that you can get in touch with someone anytime you call them and that they will pretty much go out with you at anytime, at first that can be exciting, but after a while it gets old. Your subconscious mind starts to think that they have nothing else to do, and you lose a little respect for that person. Maybe you don’t ask them a week ahead of time if they can go out. Maybe they turn into your last resort friend that you text one hour before an event begins.

Exclusivity is when you make a schedule for yourself and you don’t allow things to take you off your schedule. Say for instance you plan to workout at 12:00p.m. If he calls you and wants to do something during that time, it’s better to tell him that you already have plans than to change your plans for him. Believe me, if he is interested he will find something else you can do together.

This is only part of how exclusivity works, there is more information on how to use it with your relationship situation in the program.

Powerful Strategy #2

Standards and Boundaries

This comes into play even before you start dating. There should be some things that are just unacceptable to you or things that you won’t put up with. For instance, one area that I see some women fall short on setting standards for is how many children they want in a relationship.

If a man tells you he has 5 children already, and you only want 2, then there is no reason for you to see him again. You know that you don’t see yourself with a big family and if he already has one, then you are lowering your standards to meet his.

You may know that smoking is a turn off for you, but you begin to rationalize his smoking by saying that you don’t want to be controlling. Controlling would be staying with him and trying to change him and make him stop. Not entering into the relationship, if you know that is a deal breaker for you is having standards.

By using this, you are able to essentially “weed out” men who are not right for you. In the guy magnet program, it outlines how to determine if your standards are too high and if you are looking for the impossible “perfect man”.

Just by using these two strategies you will be able to attract the right man for you and keep him interested. Hope this has been helpful for you today!

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How to Make a Guy Love You: 7 Strategies That Can’t Fail

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