Top 9 Ways He Will Secretly Let You Know He’s NOT Interested
Are you trying to figure out if he is into you? Is he giving you mixed signals that he likes you? You are not alone. At some point, all women have wondered the extent of a man’s affection and I’m going to share with you the 9 ways you can tell if he is into you.
Please note: This is part 2 of a 2 part post, make sure you read the first part of signs that he likes you.
When trying to get a man to fall for you or in love with you, you need to be strategic about the way you do things once you find out that he is into you.
The most effective thing you can do is avoid giving him too much once you find out he likes you. What you do in the beginning affects the course of your relationship and you don’t want to make mistakes that are hard to undo later on. Check out the Guy Magnet video for some tips on how to start your relationship off right.
9 Clear Signs That He Isn’t All That Into You
The following signals are a pretty good indication that he is probably not as attracted to you (if at all) as you might like them to be:
1. Where does he look?
He averts his eyes when talking to you. This is body language and if he is doing this he probably would rather be somewhere else.
2. Has he done this?
He has asked for your phone number, but then didn’t call. Or, if he gave you his number and expects you to give him a call. Don’t fall into this trap. Often times when men give their number to women, they want the woman to chase them or they want to see just how desperate a woman is. He needs to ask for your number AND call you.
3. Broken Promises?
He says he is going to call and then he doesn’t. Ok, there could be a good excuse for this (and it had better be a good one!), however we all know it only takes two seconds to make a quick call or even send a text message! Or if you call him and he says he will call right back and he never gets around to it.
4. Disrespect?
Does he flirt with other women while he is around you? Not a good sign at all.
5. Is everything one-sided?
You call him 90% of the time. If he rarely, if ever calls you then chances are they aren’t as interested in you as you are in them. The best thing to do in this situation is to take some time off from calling you to see if he starts to pursue. If not, it’s best to move on.
6. Excuses?
He always makes up excuses as to why he can’t meet your friends or family. Why wouldn’t he want to meet your friends and family if he is really attracted to you and wants things to last?
7. Has he said this?
They told you they weren’t attracted to you (ok, that’s pretty obvious!) It’s hard to believe but for some women this isn’t enough. Believe me, if he’s said he’s not attracted or interested he isn’t. Even the most shy guys find a way to let you know of their interest.
8. Important dates?
He forgot your birthday – again. If he forgets important dates or events in your life, then he doesn’t place much importance on these dates in your life. You deserve better.
9. Avoidance?
He only answers his phone when he doesn’t know it is you calling. This person is too scared to tell you they’re not interested, so will avoid talking to you for as long as possible in hope that you will give up and move on.
DATER BEWARE: Sometimes it is difficult to tell if he is attracted to you or not if he is a genuinely nice person and does not want to hurt you. Or you could be confused by a person who is just simply a good conversationalist. Sometimes people just enjoy talking to other people and you should not mistake this as an attraction sign.
MEGA TIP: If he really likes you he will find a way to approach you. Even if he’s shy, he will find an excuse to see you or call you.
Missed the first part of this post? Find it here.
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